that sleep with you on the first date or at a party expect you to take them out or see them. They already establish that they are easy. It seems like being asked to run a race that has already been won. Even when I still see them or spend time with them, they all of a sudden hold out on sex and try to string you along before they do it again. It doesn't change the fact they are easy, why try to make a guy jump through hoops to do it again? Maybe try just giving your # at a party and closing your legs, or just leave the date with a kiss and not a full serving of vagina?
2006-09-26 21:35:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've either got to stop having sex with the easy girls, or stop trying to have sex with them after the first time.
Problem solved!
2006-09-26 21:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by IAINTELLEN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls that give it up on the first date think that by sleeping with a guy that the guy will be captivated by how brilliant these girls are and will automatically want to jump into a relationship - then by holding back on the sex its like they're kinda trying to gain back the respect that the guy SHOULD have for them.
I totally agree with you though - if you're gona put out on the first night - you're easy and no amount of denying jiggy is gonna change that!!
The girls that do this are usually lacking in self confidence and pretty desperate - if they actually thought about their actions before they did it theyd actually realise that no guy wants to date a slapper and by holding back on jumping into bed with them - theyd have more of a chance of a relationship!!
2006-09-27 04:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control is an illusion of power. Some women think that it's good to string a guy along like that, giving the first time easy and the other times are a hassle. This creates wusses. There's nothing wrong about first date sex, but it's wrong when you do it with ulterior motives. 'Just do it' comes to mind. Don't make a big deal about it though. If you think that sex = love, you got a lot to learn.
2006-09-30 16:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by deusdenton 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-09-27 04:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because maybe they are needing some attention and needing to be felt as i they are cared for because they need some type of security that they did not have as a child. This may just be there satisfaction to there needs. Although, they never get that it was just a good or bad time...Now where is my clothes?
2006-09-27 04:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by jlyn271 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your the one with the problem randomly sleeping with girls the first time you meet them and expect that to be it. maybe you should ask for her number and give her only a kiss on the first date. it takes two to have sex!
2006-09-27 04:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
women know it is power and they like to give it then take it right away to play games thats all it is just jump in the shower next time before you go to a party and you wont be so horny to jump on her and make her work for you
2006-09-27 04:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by Travis R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats because any girl that will lay down and have sex only if you known her for like 1 hour that is easy! why are guys alway wanting to get them into bed? why do you go through with it if they ask you? ITS BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOU WANT IT AND YOU KNOW THEY WILL LIKE IT COMING FROM YOU!!!
2006-09-27 04:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by ...♥BeautifullyBroken* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you even tell your "one night" girls you only do it for the sex no strings attached? Doesnt say much bout you for having sex with "easy" girls then........
2006-09-27 04:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ocean 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only cheap girls do that, they usually do it after you bang them the same day you met them. by trying to hook you they want you to think that they are decent girls but it doesn't work that way, first impression last forever.
2006-09-27 04:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by cartermoriro 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋