2006-09-26 21:29:00 · 11 answers · asked by another911 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hei Mister, I was about to get mad at my husband though, as I thought he would forgot our wedding anniversary today..As a matter of fact, I don't want to sweat him out of this, so I just asked him "what time will you go home today", and suddenly he turned to me and "ohmigod, what date is today, 27th, ****! I forgot our anniversary!!". Instead angry with him, I just nodded and kissed him, and he asked me out for dinner tonight..
I just want to emphasize that, whatever it is, try to make something nice for her, don't be affraid to face her anger (you deserve it though :)) ), make an apology, all the ladies' opinion above are good and true. Try to please her, whatever she wanted you to do..good luck..
2006-09-26 22:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by yanti b 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Buying her off with gifts and dinners isnt going to make her forget or forgive.
If you truly want her forgiveness start by getting off your computer and apologizing. Swallow all your pride and admit you were forgetful and that you are very sorry. Then ask her what she would like to do for a late anniversary celebration because it is the RELATIONSHIP you want to celebrate with her.... not the date.
Then devote a full day to doing exactly that...
Maybe a nice breakfast out, then a walk through a park with a picnic lunch, and then home alone for a romantic dinner and cuddling to a favorite movie (or other intimate activities as appropriate), but remember YOU were the one who forgot so you should make the extra effort (you do the cooking, etc). Pamper her a bit.
Believe me, the effort will go alot further than the gifts...
2006-09-27 05:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you obviously have to say sorry to her in some way. take her out somewhere, ANYWHERE. try writing a speech (that HAS to come from your heart) that talks about how it doesnt matter how many years you've been together, what matters is that you two are still together. tell her that 10 years may pass, or 20 years, but no matter how many years, till death do you two part, you'll love her more and more everyday and forever. you have to truly mean it though.
2006-09-27 04:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh oh ....
You no your wife, what has she been wanting or what would she feel would be a good apology?
If you never make dinner, make it. If you never clean house, clean it. If she loves gifts, get her one.
What works for one gal does not work for us all. I would be happy with a quad white mocha lol, but this might not be enough for your wife....You no her best. But do something! Don't let it slide!
I always forget everything, good thing we are not into traditions. I would be in big trouble!
2006-09-27 04:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet she is. You better find something special for her. Maybe a weekend get away, romantic dinner, flowers, plus somethig else. You know her, what does she like or makes her feel special. next year, dont forget it! Put a reminder on your computer calender or somthing! Good Luck
2006-09-27 06:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it is all her fault for not reminding you ahead of time. Then get mad at her for being so selfish and keeping it to herself.
That is the way Asian women do it to the men. The men fall for it as well.
2006-09-27 06:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apologize and do something that you hate but she simply love. Go beyond the ordinary and suspected. And never forgets the anniversary again.
2006-09-27 04:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by angela 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
alot of people have a problem with dates, just go out and get a card and write a long long entry in their confessing your love and appreciation and get her a gift (jewelry) or something. but make it special, take her out to eat and show her that you love her and it was not intentional that you forgot. just show her you love her! good luck
2006-09-27 04:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since u asled to cpmpensate:
if it is by date u forgate
try wedding Star or day or Tithi wh comes later & make her to appreciate u that it is more apprpriate than date.
2006-09-27 06:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by veerabhadrasarma m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite the bullet dude. You will never hear the end of this. She will hold it over your head for the rest of your life.
2006-09-27 05:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋