I am talking of puting end to my life.I M 20 yr guy from India.I m totally frustrated with my self because i have no friends in my life.I M lonely.I M only responsible for making me lonely.I Have Speech & little bit of hearing problem.Secondly, my mind is like MUM.Nothing comes into it for talking like normal people.I also often forget thing fast.I can't even afford to see a speech therapist who may able to help me.My biggest concern is the JOB.Who will give me a JOB if i can't talk with people.How will i survive without money.My parents are unemployed.My father is a drunker.I M good working with computers.But zero in communicating.What Job in computer field will suit me which does not require communicating.Can anyone help ?
2006-09-26 20:31:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Putting an end to your life is not the answer. Think positively. Go to the state employment center. They can help you obtain employment in your field.
Your state social services can assist you in getting further training if it is necessary. Don't look down, aways look up. Tomorrow is another day.
The expression is "hang on".
Life is in us today and we make our tomorrows. Don't give up.
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2006-09-26 21:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by arejokerswild 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think of programming being good for the computer field.
Life is a challenge for some of us and we must find our own happiness. At 20 you are young and your hormones are running wild. Wait till you get my age (about double yours) and you will look back at this point in you life and realize all the things that you could have done. There is plenty you can do now but inexperience limits what you can see.
2006-09-26 20:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 years old and you want to cash in your chips already.. India dude.hang in there. I myself keeping it real no bullshit.. I'm 48 live with more pain than allowed by law.but cashing in my chips never!!!! the last year & half got bad.. my illness in time will not allow me to walk..but india dude.I look at it like this it can stop me from walking. but it cant stop my brain from running...with your skills you got a way .. to make things better.. some don't have that..if you need someone to talk to e- mail me big T keeps it real..i'll find it a honor to be your friend.. india dude I got a tattoo across the bottom of my neck. which I did years ago that reads "only the good die young" so that tells you I know i'am gonna die a old bad m"f.......dont give up !! india dude.god bless stay strong.get at me..if you need too...big~T
2006-09-26 21:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by BIG TUDY OG INLAND EMPIRE X3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello again Floyd,
Forget about checking out on life. You need to realize that there are plenty of people using this site who (even if they don't tell you) are handicapped in ways that might be a lot worse than yours, and no one's telling you you should do yourself in.
There are thousand of jobs in the computer field that don't require a lot of person to person contact. The person who runs the computer security in the building I work at (approx. 1500 PCs) works in an office all by themselves.
Moreover, you should stop focusing on what you perceive others think of you. Those who limit their judgments of people, solely on external presentation, aren't worth the amount of thought you're giving them.
Work on the things that you're good at. Do well in school. Find an agency you can volunteer your skills to. Not only are non-profit organizations hungry for volunteers, working for one looks GREAT to potential employers. Then, when you're ready to join the work force, write out a resume that highlights your qualifications. Employers are much more interested in someone who's dedicated and enjoys their work, than how good your rap is at the water cooler.
You've got to take a more pro-active position in your life. Things will start to happen for you, and your whole outlook will change.
2006-09-26 20:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by IAINTELLEN 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First and foremost, completely get rid of the thought of killing yourself. Isn't that aginst Hindu religion? besides, what would be the point? So you have some problems. Its okay, we all do. If your good at computers, no worries. There are always jobs available (especially by way of american outsourcing) for skilled computer technicians, and you don't have to have perfect communications skills to get them. Just do your best, fill out various applications, search the internet, tell your father to stop blowing all his money on beer, and relax. Its all good, all the time, no matter what. Remember that, and you'll be fine.
2006-09-26 20:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yep, just be a programmer or the one who types in information without having to talk to people much, the first people to get jobs working with the old univac machine, first computers, were the deaf, because the noise of the old machines was terrible, and only the deaf could stand it. forget the world and make yourself into something you can be proud of, and then totally seperate from your miserable family.
2006-09-26 20:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you need to get in touch with someone in the social services field near your home. They can help people learning problems and physical conditions.
Most certainly you should "hang in there". Killing yourself is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Open your phone book and find your government's social services department right away!
2006-09-26 20:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey hang in there we all go though hard times.try to look for some help out there there may be more help out there you just have to find it. you are a good person and you have something to offer to other people . we all have a gift. you have something you can give of our self. you will get pass this . Look to your mother she is good with computers maybe see can help. life is hard but there is always a ray of sunshine we all just have to look for it.
YOU MUST REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON AND YOU ARE LOVED.
PLEASE E-MAIL AND WE CAN TALK BUT MUST OF ALL GET SOME HELP PLEASE YOU ARE WORTH IT
2006-09-26 20:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by suzsuz75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in ! And while you are at it, run down to you're local seven eleven and get yourself a Slurpee !
2006-09-26 20:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in.
I will be very happy to answer your questions.We don't want to loose you.No one perfect.Life is not perfect.I could be wrong.We do have problems too .PLEASE HANG IN.You just don't know when your chance will show up.
Forget about HANG
2006-09-26 20:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋