We had signed a prelease agreement to secure a house to rent. we planned on moving in with my twins and his mother. The lease was to be for 12 months and we were excited to play house...I thought. 8 hours after signing pre-lease papers, he told me I had "attitude" and it was too much for him to handle. The cold heart breaker then informed me we were over, I needed to find a place to live and he was going out to the club to enjoy us no longer being a couple.....Please explain to me why he waited until 6 days before move in day to crush my faithful loving heart into dust. WHY? WHY?
2006-09-26 20:31:05 · 11 answers · asked by brightambitions 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Despite what you will hear from the general female population (He's a dirty rotten, egg eating pig, etc) men on the whole, are seriously afraid of that level of commitment. Imagine the level of judgmental pressure he would be under living with YOUR siblings, and his mother. I probably would have ran too. The fact that he left doesn't mean he doesn't love you, in fact, he may still. He just couldn't handle the pressure. He probably didn't leave to go clubbing either. Things like that are a cop out for men to QUIT (one of the most feared words in the male vocabulary) without openy admitting defeat and still retaining what they inside beleive to be their alpha male status. In other words, he was a pussy. And I hope at least one person notices my self contradiction in there somwhere.
2006-09-26 20:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by dude1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is an evil, mean hearted jerk. After the pain you will realize that you are way better off. There is plenty of time for a real man...one with class and sincerity to enter into your life.
Take your time...get over jerko face first. No need to rush...you need to heal. Re-define your goals and no matter what, apply yourself daily to become better.
As far as the twit who left you. Refuse to give him the time of day. Don't let him crawl from under his rock, back into your life.
2006-09-26 20:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a jerk sweetie and did you a real big favor. Aren't you relieved that you found out now and not later,if you think you're hurting now,you would had been devastated by then,you are better off without him,he's not even worth the time.
2006-09-26 20:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel very sad n sorry 4u. Dis jerk should dumped him at very early stage in ur relationship. It's not worthy 2b with him. Just 4get him n start a new life again by lookin 4ward d future. Hope u r alright.............
2006-09-26 20:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know u dont see this now,... but its better it happened NOW than later. They probably got cold feet and will mend things with you soon. U never know,. Hang in there. Things will work out
2006-09-26 20:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say this, but it sounds like he used u to get the lease agreement. u need to get ur name off the agreement . if he doesn't pay u could be liable.
2006-09-26 20:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably building up to it for a while.
then it's just a matter of the appropriate trigger....in this case I bet hearing you make plans was what set him off.
2006-09-26 20:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a dirty, rotten, egg sucking PIG, who's a pathetic waste of space and he does not deserve to exist!!!
2006-09-26 20:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am unable to say
but god is with u when some one goes some otherr come
it will take time but
do not give up
it is a law3
if u think to die u die tha wat appe
oter still ejoy life
so be brave
it is a fault of heart
bye
take care
2006-09-26 20:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is an immature jerk, whom you will be better off without.
2006-09-26 20:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋