ok so this guy...we have been chatting and we hung around many times...talking..and messing around..and even kind of had sex...but i dont understand ..after awhile he started talking less with me online(on yahoo)...and now he doesnt even message me like before..before..it was like omgg all the time wud mesage me..asking me to meet and stuff...but now i think he jus puts me as offline on his settings and we dont talk properly for days...but i started liking him and having feelings and i really really miss talking to him...but then it pisses me off the way hes acting..ignoring me and all..but wen he wants to meet he will talk..So what do i doo..shud i also jus take him off my yahoo list and completely forget about him....HELP ME PLZZ...i cant even sleep i feel so depressed..am i being stupid..shud i leave it at that n drop it? ps - i have a bf.....
2006-09-26 20:26:57 · 18 answers · asked by sneha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of him maybe he dropped you because you only "kind of had sex".
2006-09-26 20:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should tell him how you feel. Don’t feel scare if he would turn you down. If you're too shy to approach him, what i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to him in person sure has the edge and more advantage.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettiness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve.
All the best to u.
2006-09-27 06:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what ever your heart desires...see cause some ppl ask for this kind of advice...but yet they turn around and dnt use it know what i mean...all i could say from the sound of it he's not interested..but you already know that you just wanna hear it come from others...i mean what more could i say the signs are all there...i think you should treat him the way he's been treating you(ignore him) why is it so hard to let go of someone who's doing you wrong yet when a nice guy comes along ppl wanna dig all up under the surface in hopes of finding something wrong with the poor guy so they could have an excuse to drop him...the dating world is backwards...we want good but when we find it we let go...then we end up with someone who dont give a damn about us and we wanna hold on to them for dear life...see what i'm saying so sad but true...all i could tell you to do is follow your heart you know where you stand...but your in denial wake up...move on.... i wish you the best of luck
2006-09-27 03:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell him how you feel? because if you did and he still ignores you then I am afraid you should let him go.....
but from this guys point of view if you have a bf and you are only talking to him online then he probably feels like you dont have much chance together and the smartest thing he can do is let you go....
2006-09-27 03:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by jonny_nowhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds like both of you seem to want to move on in your own ways. He just might not have the guts to tell you,so he is ignoring you instead. I think now might be a great time to make a clean break. You know its out of control when it starts affecting your health. You need to take care of yourself. Im sure you will find another great guy soon. Good Luck.
2006-09-27 03:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by emtgirl75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more simple than you think. The bad news:The guy is jus no longer interested! The good news: He's not worth the drama! He doesn't deserve a fine chick like you and you don't deserve some1 who doesn't love you as much as you love them. Go out there, get yo walk on, get a REAL man!
2006-09-27 03:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by justhulice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have more respect for yourself guys know and can sense if someone is willing to be treated in a second hand manner.putting up with just one thing that should not be going on in a relationship is a sure sign your willing to put up with way more.always know that there is no reason for any one to treat you but with in the manner you wish to be treated in.GOOD LUCK AND DONT PUT UP WITH ANYTHING THAT HURTS YOU! love is when some one does on to you as you do on to them
2006-09-27 03:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by shanadam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a boyfriend...you cheated on him and do not really care about him...Tell him what you did and let him go. Cheaters are horrible people. I hope you get cheated on again andd again for the pain you have caused your boyfriend....and the internet guy isn't interested....by the way
2006-09-27 03:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably realized you were only good for 1 thing,and now that he's tried you, he thinks you're not even good at that!
If you've got any decency,tell your bf,and move on....so that other guys can use you too. Thats what you deserve!
2006-09-27 03:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by sajid970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for your boyfriend. Of course you should forget about this jerk.. he only wanted one thing, and he got it. Forget about hm and go grovel forgveness from the man who really cares for you.
2006-09-27 03:29:06 · answer #10 · answered by Max 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋