i practically threw myself at this guy i liked....i regret things i said n did...n now he just wudnt talk to me....i dnt wana lose him as a friend either...how do i set things rite?n still keep my friendship?
2006-09-26 19:15:16 · 12 answers · asked by sah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
confused of life is right. Ive done similar things to a guy i cared about. Just lay low a lil while and wait for him to contact u first. Act normal and dont ever jump to any conclusions about a guy's actions...believe ive set myself up for disappointment time and again. He'll talk to u eventually..but calling him or trying to talk to him about this situation might just unerve him more. Let him be the one to make the moves, or not...whatever happens will happen...but dont be a fool and ever let a guy use u because they know u care for them (again, im sorry if i got out of line..but this is based on my personal experience)...I had a best friend that i truly fell for...but i let my emotions get the best of me...and i learned that that had been a bad idea. Everything will work out for u in the end..sometimes u just have to have patience...good luck!
2006-09-26 19:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Carly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to wait it out, and then when you see him in a casual setting bring it up as a joke, and just tell him you are sorry u made things weird, and that u understand that it shoudlnt have been brought up at that time. He will either tell you that he couldnt stop thinking about it, or he will take that as an easy way to let the past be the past and get back to ur friendships. right now he just doesnt want to have to reveal his feelings to you. either beucase he doesnt know or he doesnt want to hurt you. so instead of telling you that he is going to make you wait. and like most girls you are going to sit here and think about it day in and day out, but acting on it right now will only make things worst. he needs to think that you are comfortable enough to give him his time. Just take a deep breath and wait at least 2 days.
2006-09-27 02:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by girl_like_you 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time, unless you were totally rude or out of line , I think he is probably just embarrassed , he probably doesn't want to lose a friend either. Wait a couple of weeks then give him a call.
2006-09-27 02:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
u havent clear ur problem cleary. although i can understand quite.
your mind is counfused perhaps. u just go and tell him that i wanna talk 2 u for sometimes and please listen. u tell him whatevr u want to tell please dont take your ego between ur relationship. u clear ask him what is his problem? if he has some problem u should also leave him, he will understand ur imp in life after u left him. if he doesnt have any problem ask him to do friendship with u! this can only happen only if u talk to him
i also have some problems with my BF but still i am confident that he will talk to me and he is defeneatly going to do that.
it's not easy to forget love, but it doesnt mean that u stop thinking for u self, it wil not reduce ur love. u r not living only for him u are also living for others.
think positive and go ahead, my wishes are with u
best of luck, see u.
2006-09-27 02:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run after him, 'cause if he puts you off a second time it will make you feel worse. Go out and exersise mix with other friends who complement you, maybe he'll want to be as happy as you have become and run after you again. Good Luck
2006-09-27 02:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by tracey s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to let things cool down for a while before taking any actions.
Then, be natural and like nothing has been said before.
2006-09-27 02:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! That had to hurt. Give him time, maybe in a couple days he won't be so freaked out.
2006-09-27 02:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by yobaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the zero and get a hero.
2006-09-27 02:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you dont say what exactly you said that made him stop talking to you...a REAL freind would never not talk to you, so in my opinion, dont even give it another thought. It is his loss.
2006-09-27 02:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by romanov1918 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time...you need time.... don't be too pushy....let problem solve it self.... all you can do is say sorry and hope for the best but don't give up...
2006-09-27 02:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by pheobe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋