Remember that u r in love with this person yet all along he has never told u that he/she is married.
2006-09-26 19:12:55 · 19 answers · asked by smart_eluh 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u hav been to his/her house. u even know some of his/her family members.this is a case of double living
2006-09-26 19:29:59 · update #1
You have to think in terms of being mature and civilized.
There would be no reason for you to continue with this relationship, unless of course, you want to. The best thing is to move on with your life and regard the matter as one of life's many learning experiences.
If you had fun and enjoyed his company while he was cheating, how much enjoyment could he have had in the relationship, constantly looking over his shoulder and thinking up excuses when he got home. Not much fun.
There are plenty of other people, decent people, who are out there looking for someone to meet and enjoy their life with...
The point is...not to be disillusioned.
2006-09-26 19:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by marnefirstinfantry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're doing isn't residing at the same time, yet 'shacking up'. which skill there is no dedication in any respect, yet only the affection and sex section that you 2 agree on. Your boyfriend is unquestionably committing adultery, he remains a married guy and also you're with a married guy. he's not divorced from his spouse yet. in the experience that your boyfriend has an identical thoughts in the route of you, then he would do what it takes to pay for the divorce. yet, it would not look that way, does it? i'd not stay lengthy in this relationship with him because he's not taking your relationship very severe. First, he hasn't filed for divorce himself. 2d, he hasn't requested you to marry him. 0.33, you do not somewhat understand him that nicely. very last yet no longer least, if he loved you that a lot, would not you imagine that he would have tried to divorce his spouse interior both a million/2 years you both were at the same time??? imagine about it. Why did he wait see you later? The divorce would were over with. If I were you, flow out. Wait till his divorce is very last. And wait to work out if his thoughts are nevertheless an identical, in the different case, you've been only there for the sex. imagine this over, do no longer make a huge mistake!
2016-11-24 21:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by seeger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm lets see...
1. Have you ever been to his or her house?
2. Do you have their home number,not just a cel phone?
3. Are they with you for Christmas,Thanksgiving the entire time?
4. Have you ever meet their family eg brothers,sisters,parents?
5. Have you taken trips together?
If you answer no to any or all of these questions, I would say the sign were always there.
Unless you were dating a spy or CIA operative then double lives are normal. Good Luck
2006-09-26 19:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by triniqueen40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind, isnt it ? Two years ? and you had no idea ? That is just horrible -- but you cant keep a relationship going with this person. You have to end it -- How can you be with a person that had lied to you for two years ? What else has he lied about ?
A relationship is based on Truth and Honesty -- without that -- there is nothing left. You deserve more ! Good Luck
2006-09-26 19:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they still living with their spouse? If so, that would be pretty dumb if you couldn't figure out something was up in two years. But if they'd been separated the whole time, I'd be pretty mad that they hadn't told me they were still married. I'd have serious trust issues with them.
2006-09-26 19:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two is company, three is a crowd. It's obvious you are the third person here so move on honie en get your own company.
2006-09-26 22:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kennox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
=======
If you have the time, and you are looking for someone, complete this simple
form and start dating.
http://**************/go.php
2006-09-26 19:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by ady a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably time to move one. Don't believe you have been cheated, he/she is the one that has be cheated. Life just moves on, perhaps this is the luckiest day of your life. I wish you the best!
2006-09-26 19:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by looking4ziza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey, if u have been dating him for 2 years and he still hasn't left his wife it means he isn't going too. if u agree being the second lady why not to continue? but don't forget to ask him for material support for using u
2006-09-26 19:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have been so naieve as to miss all the signs that pointed to something not quite right.
2006-09-26 19:15:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋