This chik is making me work really hard, either she likes me but doesn't want to admit it, or likes to see guys work, and struggle. what do you think?
2006-09-26 19:02:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This chik is making me work really hard, either she likes me but doesn't want to admit it, or likes to see guys work, and struggle. what do you think? i backed off for the whole summer, and when i ran into her a lil while ago, she gave me her "new" number, which was the same as the old one. its too much work, i'll tell you what.
2006-09-26 19:12:45 · update #1
Hi Mizike, jealous of your friend talking to his girlfriend huh, you want to be with your friend huh? I mean if your friend has a girlfriend you don't have the right to be pissed off because he is talking to her. You are obviously jealous as hell and want to get with your friend, you sad person.
2006-09-29 18:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love it -- but you have to not overdo it. Its nice to hear that you like them, but not only tell her, you have to show her.
The downside to this is if you do it too much or come on too strong, all the time telling her you love her, she is beautiful, etc etc, then she is going to think you are full of **** and think you are too easy and it is going to get annoying. Girls do like a challenge, even though we are always going to say, "I wish I can find a guy that......." chances are if we find a guy like that -- we will find something wrong with him.
I know -- we woman are strange creatures, find a good balance and go from there.
2006-09-27 02:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females like when guys say "I like you" but its how you say it and how you come across. If you're like the stalker guy aka "Creepy factor"... you'll get shot down. If you're the cool guy aka "he's okay/hot", you'll get a good response. Just remember NEVER tell a girl you like her unless she's made it apparent that she feels the same. Girls use signs and body language for a reason. Its either to tell the jerk get lost or tell the hot guy "what's up" lol.
2006-09-27 02:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some females likes to know that their worth the struggle. I wonder what would happen if you backed off just a little. Let's see how she'd react.
2006-09-27 02:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by R W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy is cute and a good catch of course i would enjoy if he tells me he likes me. but if he is a nerdy loser i would be very very upset - why on earth im approached by a loser? doen't he have any eyes or i look that bad? so look at yourself in the mirror and think hard whether u re a good catch for her or a nerdy loser. then u know how she feels
2006-09-27 02:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it . when a guy says he likes me but , Unfortunately where I am at we don't have too many guys the majority rules(gays & lesbians ) so it is a rare word heardhere unless they are tourisits and who bothers with them they are just a ticket away from home.
2006-09-27 02:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by lytesdelite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone likes the ocassional compliment, but if she's doing all of that, she just wans to see how far she can push you. Tell her to kiss your ** and keep stepping.. Make HER work for it!!
2006-09-27 02:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by Raven Sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just using you thats how all women think use the guy to do there job.
2006-09-27 02:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that everybody enjoys hearing that..but if don't let her boss you around cause it's not worth it ;)
2006-09-27 02:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's just playing you. Good luck!!
2006-09-27 02:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋