my 9 yrs old daughter is introvert type hw to make her more smart pl help?

Question

She is simple & quite

Answer 1

never change swadhrma system generated from birth. if she is good in family and acadamics then she is very good. let her be like that. without her pushing socialising. make her to be pat of the group of dynamic persons. but learn tolerace patience of not ot feel bad for cunning tricks played by others. innercourage in silence produces max pwer in mind. mental peace is right there for her. words generate friction in mind cases loosing concentration on work. make her to be more towardsa. good literature and computer skills which pushes her toward best career init industry. social service also yoga learn classical music dance would put her on indian culture map.

Answer 2

I was an introvert when I was young. Even though I was quiet, I was happy.

It would help if she always had nice clothes that she was proud of and her hair was fixed as nice as it could be. Those types of things are important. Is she hauled around town in an old car, and does she have old furniture in her bedroom? Those were the types of things that were whirling around in my head when I was young that held me back. Maybe karate would be a good idea for your daughter, or any activity that she can excel in.

I was a smart person and I didn't find the need to talk about anything since it already registered in my mind. Later, I had a little talk to myself that I needed to say something/ anything about every subject. So maybe you might want to try broaching the subject with your daughter. "Don't be a dork; say something - respond to comments and remark on things/ objects or be ostricized. See how everybody else converses." I don't know if that will help. It very well could.

My own daughter was just the opposite of me. My ex-wife had her at the age of 3-4 going up to tables of total strangers at Pizza Hut. I was disturbed by this, but nobody else apparently was. My daughter loved to sing at a young age so maybe this had something to do with it.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Big difference between an introvert and a stupid person. Most geniuses are introverts. Decide if you want her smarter or more social, because she'lll have to dumb heslef down to be an effective communicator.

I think you both should take some time learning together. Be it looking through subjects online or studying a texbook together. Heck, just grab a Harry Potter book and READ to her out loud.

When I was 3, Dad read half of the Hobbit to me, got to the cliffhanger(where Bilbo falls down the hole), closed the book and said "Now you have to read the rest". He helped me through it but I didn't get a free ride, either.

As far as being social, don't push it. You could sign her up for Toastmasters or send her to an extracurricular leadership class -Outward Bound is PERFECT. But if you dump her in a crowd and leave her there she's just going to end up hiding in the corner and hating you.

Answer 4

There can be many causes.
(1). The atmosphere of the house is not good,she sees people fighting & yelling.
(2). She doesn't have another sibling.
(3). She is abused all the time.
(4). Try to take out time & go for outings (with other families)as a big group at the weekends.
(5). Sit beside her & tell her to tell you everything of the day.Listen patiently & give advise.
(6). Give her some small duties at home & appreciate her.
The last but not the least,Put her in Sports & then see the change.

Answer 5

You cannot change her personality, but you can give her your love and comprehension, that's what she needs the most, right now she is in the age she would start changing from a girl to a young lady, that's very difficult, and she needs to "re-edit" her self, like... umm, her favorite color, food, the way she dresses, does her hair.... etc.

I recommend you give her a book, take her to the book store, and let her choose one or two. It's the best to exploit her mind... but don't just leave it there, you have to read the same books she reads, so you can discuss them later on, things like what she liked more in the book - and what you liked- what she thinks of it... and that.

She needs a lot of attention but do not suffocate her, she needs to know that you care about her, about the things she likes, something like the music she likes, do not just critic it, listen to it, from time to time, that way she would feel open for your opinion and you will gain her trust, also, you can make her analyze it, like, the lyrics, how good the harmony is, is voice... that sort of things.

If she is quiet and introvert, maybe is because she feels insecure about herself, but might just be her personality, try talk to her about school, how was her day, etc, but do not pressure her.

Good luck...
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Answer 6

Quite what? And since when does being introverted mean you're not smart? Perhaps you should just let her be and hope she doesn't turn out like you; chances are that at 9, she still has a better grasp of sentence construction than you do.

Answer 7

simple and quiet does not necessarily equal below average intelligence, in many cases the simple/quiet ones are smarter than the extroverted kids.

I have two daughters, my oldest tends to keep to herself, the youngest is very outgoing. However recently their school tested them and the oldest rated very highly, while the younger was in the middle of the pack. The oldest gets perfect grades, the younger gets average grades.
So unless there is more to your question that I'm missing, I would say don't sweat it too much, let her do her thing, as long as she is doing well in her studies. It may be a blessing when she gets older...

Answer 8

Set an example and do not focus on her constantly. Children learn best by example. However if she finds that you talk too much or are too outgoing it can also be a put off. Don't be extremes. The more you put pressure on her to be outgoing, the more she will close up in her shell.

Answer 9

punish her suited away. you cant make her frightened of you yet she nonetheless needs to renowned who's in charge. i grow to be fourteen and in charge of elevating my cousins 2 infants. One grow to be 4 and a nil.5 and the different grow to be a sprint over one. once I first have been given them, the girl grow to be very spoiled. you will tell her no and she or he would cry such as you beat her. i'm now 19 and that they are 8 and 5. I purely would desire to provide them the seem and that they understand to act on the instant. Make a catalogue of policies she has to stick to and positioned up them someplace interior the domicile. extraordinarily if she has not been incredibly disciplined by potential of you previously purely reducing your voice would desire to straighten her out

Answer 10

Do you want to make her more smart? Or outgoing? What are you asking? Put her in plays and she will be more outgoing and yet use her introvert personality to act!