All the way untill Highschool I have never gotten a girlfriend, even a date. No matter how I tried. when I turned 18, I went out with my first girlfriend. She was a 25 gorgeous wopmen, with a fantastic personality to match, and it lasted about a month. She just recently broke up me and its terring me apart, because I don't know if I can find anyone like her again, I've been told by friends that there are other fish in the sea. But I keep thinking that if there were so many fish, hoe come no bit at my line when I was in highschool.
2006-09-26 18:49:39 · 13 answers · asked by Hoyer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
many, many people have problems in high school. You;re not alone, I assure you. Just be more outgoing. Don't base your future on your past, or you won't get anywhere. Just go out there and have fun. Your next girlfriend will find you when you're not expecting it. That's how I met my husband! : )
2006-09-26 18:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything will be okay, thats a pretty big age difference. and this just wasnt meant to be for some reason. everything will be be fine, you just need your time to think abotu things and such, then you'll be over it. i didnt start dating till i was also out of highschool. your friends are right saying "there are other fish in the sea" cause its true you will meet a wonderful girl around your age someday. Dont let her get to you. maybe you can meet another girl thorugh your friends? or even friends friends?
good luck things will get better
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2006-09-26 18:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just took you a while to get started. Trust me, the first one is really confusing, and some will hurt even worse, but it's just a game we all seem to have to play. Go out, and know that some days it's great and some not so much. You will be surprised at how many are interested, once you go up and talk to them. And if some say no, that's their mistake, right? Good luck buddy.
2006-09-26 18:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remind me of my friend Logan. He's a really great guy, a tad bit shy, but otherwise a real "catch". No one seems to notice him because he's not on the varsity football team and he doesn't play basketball. Nerd or not, some guys just aren't noticed in high school. The same is true for girls too. Unless your a super hot chick or a slut, no one notices you.
2006-09-26 18:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer is simple. Men look their best at 18. You hit a sexual peek and she liked what she saw. Before that you may have looked awkward or gangly. The point is you are not that guy in high school anymore. You will find more girls that like you as long as you have confidence in yourself and you like them in return.
2006-09-26 19:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends are right,your gonna have to fight it. I think your just so in love with her because she was your first girlfriend but there will others. Don't stress over any female because the right one will come along and make up for all the old one's in the past!!!
2006-09-26 18:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mycan Moneek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is only a remember of timing. It would not recommend that your reports are going to be any a lot less significant to her than the first ones. in truth, it may mean better to her, on condition that she will no longer be as in contact about the initial awkwardness of it. may you easily quite her have regretted dozing with them? then you honestly may have emotional themes to triumph over and choose in the previous you should even delve into the problem of having sex with one yet another. i comprehend it would not experience like it, even though it truly will be ok; I assure you which ones can mean merely as a lot, if no better, to her than the different adult men did.
2016-12-02 03:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by sawney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High school is just a small fraction of your life. It's just 4 years, out of the 60 or so you have left.
By the way, girls like horses
2006-09-26 18:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question. Because you had no confidence in yourself. Just hold your head up high, and it will get better. If you have no reason to be confident, then find one (besides a girlfriend.)
2006-09-26 18:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by rmtzlr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love yourself? do you find yourself appealling? You'll find love again but you'd be surprise that it may find you in the most strangest places. Don't look to the past for your answers. Focus on your unlimited possibilities in your future.
2006-09-26 18:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by R W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋