i cant imagine ever dating a guy because the say such horrible things (examples: suck my **** you slut, the only thing i like in a woman are nice ****). i honestly am considering becoming a lesbian. i dont desearve to be treated like that by someone. why date at all?
2006-09-26 18:11:20 · 21 answers · asked by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
youre right i guess i only pay attention to the bad ones. ive met a lot of decent guys but everytime i talk to some guy who makes a comment about 'motorboating' i forget about the decent guys and decide all men are ***holes.
2006-09-26 18:18:12 · update #1
for example i heard it in this yahoo asnwers question "what do guys 18-30 look for in a girl?" a guy said
16 years old, suck on **** like a ******* vaccuum, idolizes me and adhires to my every whim, great cook, no cellulite, not annoying or immature, quiet and speaks when spoken too. like all good women should be
im 24 "
ew...
2006-09-26 18:20:25 · update #2
and im a nice person who has been treated like CRAP so dont tell me a bad person for calling them assholes. IM A GOOD PERSON ugh
2006-09-26 18:21:58 · update #3
and i am not really going to be a lesbian, sorry i just used that to show how upset i was with men.
2006-09-26 18:22:28 · update #4
I am so right there with you. Why bother - no one else talks to me like that why should a man?
2006-09-26 18:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a definite love/ hate relationship between the sexes.... we love men for nature purposes but hate them for their manipulation and womanizing etc.
I think a lot of men womanize what ever position they are in......
and I just wish like crazy I could get some brain implants into my boobs, and leg extensions to even the score. There has been no real famous women artists......... or can you name a famous women scientist? There is not the same acclaim for women and I seriously fell huge women activism going on as we speak.....
DON'T buy into beauty products etc. Why? to impress men, who only cheat and use and abuse and manipulate to their advantage.
Men who think that they are better and that women should still stay at home and do the cooking and have nothing,,, we're not allowed to have anything... they should have it all apparently.
I just can't Wait for the day when women take over the world and see how they like it only having only one brain, while we have three (one brain in each boob). Be patient, revenge will be ours.
2006-09-27 01:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by louise c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's no such thing as "The Perfect Man" you have to compromise a little on your standards.. And I agree with clit_smakr28. If you don't want to be treated that way than stop dating losers. I know women are attracted to the BAD BOYS but you know they'll just use you and leave you. Goto Church instead and meet a nice guy there.
2006-09-27 01:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by webwriter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can assure you that not all men are like that. My best friends--for years--have been guys, and NOT ONE of them would ever say that to a woman. You would be surprised at the number of guys who are actually decent--just don't look at the less intelligent ones to find them. It is usually smart guys who are nice. (Not all nice guys are smart, and not all smart guys are nice, of course; but, I have found that to be a good rule to follow.)
Women are no better than men. My lesbian friends have a harder time finding good matches than my straight friends do; partly because of lack of options, and partly because of women being hormonal and bitchy. At least men are reasonably steady month-round...women turn psychotic for a week every month.
Now, you need to figure out if you think this because of a few bad experiences, or if you are trying to think of a way to rationalize your sexual preference. Homosexuality is not a choice. If you find yourself more attracted to women than men, then I say by all means be a lesbian! If you are just upset due to bad relationships--yours and others--then don't try to live a lifestyle that isn't natural to you.
As to why date at all: I don't have an answer. I considered not dating for a good while after my relationship prior to my current one. He was not a jerk in the way you described, but in a totally different way. The point is to find a good guy. My fiance was one of my good friends before we got together. They key is to not look for a relationship. Look for friendship--maybe something will grow.
2006-09-27 01:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one DECIDES to become a lesbian. Either you're sexually attracted to women or you're not. You can't make it a choice based on bigotry.
If you seriously believe ALL men are *******, take a good look at yourself. What kind of person dismisses half the human race in a blanket statement like that?
2006-09-27 01:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Allan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are nice guys out there, its just that some girls too often mistake being nice as weakness, or kindness as lacking a backbone. So they date ******* instead. It sucks, but maybe its the reason why a lot of guys become jerks.
2006-09-27 01:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by rmtzlr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all guys r like that
i could never imagine saying something like to a female and ive gotten pretty mad at some girls but never said anything that bad and would probably kick the **** out of any guy i ever heard say something like that to a girl cause thats just wrong
so dont give up on us guys yet trust me theres one out there for u who wont treat u like that
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2006-09-27 02:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just want to say sorry on behalf of all the jerks you've dated. although i hate what they did to you. i cant control their every action.
you just havent met the right person.
ex. why do girls like the bad boys more then the nice guys?
If love isn't a game, then why are there so many players?
Girls are like phones, they liked to be held, and talked to but if you push the wrong button you will get disconnected.
Boys aren't stupid, girls are just smarter.
How pumpkins are like boys; their heads are empty, their brains are mush, and after a few days, they start to smell funny
Boys are like lava lamps, fun to watch but not too bright
Life was so much easier when boys and girls had cooties.
When God made girls He was so proud.
When God made boys He was so upset.
When God made you, He was just showing off! .^_^.
2006-09-27 01:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? Do you really think most men speak like that?
What kind of trash are you hanging around with? Go find new friends to hang around with and learn how a man really treats a women, jeeez.
2006-09-27 01:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by MoneyB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! Have you been seeing the wrong guys!!!! Believe it or not all guys are not ###holes. I get the impression that you're a young lady who has had a string of bad relationships. Get over it. I promise, you will meet a guy who will care for and respect you as you should be. You've got to care for and respect yourself first, though. Relax. It'll happen.
2006-09-27 01:16:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋