hi, i need you to tell me what should i do after a big fight but i stil wanna be his friend,we borke up few days ago,i felt bad,then we had a big fight,we said words to hurt each other,he called me a *****,i called him an ***,but i still love him but cant keep him,i wann abe his friend,but he said never wanna see me again,what should i do if i still wanna be his friend??
2006-09-26 17:58:30 · 12 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him alone for a while and see how he reacts...Let him cool down. If he does not contact you. Run away. He does not deserve you. Sometimes eye openers are long to come.
2006-09-26 18:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Frenchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had this big fight I would just give it some time. Let both of you have some time and space to cool down and think about things. If you cannot be friends after this just chalk everything up to experience and life goes on.
2006-09-26 18:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be his freind let things cool down. fact of the matter is most guys try not to befreind ex's cause it sucks to see them with other people. If he wants to be your freind he'll contact you but if you want to contact him do it after a while and go out with a group of ppl in case anything happens as well as the fact it wont just be the two of you to have uncomfortabel moments.
2006-09-26 18:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by skull1911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you should just let himm cool off for maybe 3 to 4 days and give him a call tell him you want to keep peace between you because you still care about him. don't pressure him it might make him try to get further away from you. just try to stay calm yourself it will be alright.
2006-09-26 18:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Drew'sBaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I feel if he really cares for you...he'll come around. Just give him time to cool down and if he doesn't come around then even though it may hurt...it's better to just move on with your life. You can't make someone like you who doesn't want to. Know your worth and know someone will love you for who you are. It's hard to be just friends with someone you are in love with because you will always want more then friendship and if he meets someone else...you may not like it. Just concentrate on how to make your life better.
2006-09-26 18:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by mysty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to be friends, even if you want it badly. After people have dated, it's very rare to be friends afterward especially when they start seeing new people. Try and move forward with your life.
2006-09-26 18:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you wanna be friends with him if you broke up with him, you can't keep him, and you hurt him? of course he doesn't wanna be with u for those reasons. there's nothing you could do about it, if you keep on pushing him to be your friend, things would become worst than it already is. so leave him alone.
2006-09-26 18:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call or talk to him. More then likely he does not want to be yours. Sorry for your hurt, but for your sake... move on. You will find reall love when you least expect it and not when you are trying to force it.
2006-09-26 18:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by marirene74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to say you're sorry, and then tell him that you want to be his friend. If he doesn't understand, say, "Stop being such a child, grow up, we're both old enough to be mature."
2006-09-26 18:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by Girlish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, apologize and tell him you want to be friends. The past is the past.
2006-09-26 18:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋