I busted her red handed cheating on me 7 years ago and i still rub it in her face all the time is this mean? will I go to hell for this?
2006-09-26 17:52:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I don't believe in hell, so I am hardly able to give you an answer for that.
I can tell you that you are abusing your wife. To stay with someone after an incident such as infidelity is about forgiveness, not making them miserable for something they did.
Blessings )O(
2006-09-26 17:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will not go to hell by busting your wife when she cheated you.But you must forgive her if she does not make another cheating.Cheating is prohibited by God.But giving forgiveness is better than you have grievance all the time.Seven years ago is too long for forgiveness.In islamic teaching it is allowed only 3 days we do not talk to each other between husband and wife.caused of mistakes of either side.
2006-09-27 01:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that you are not living in Hell already? How can you have a happy or fulfilling loving relationship with that nastiness going on? Not only is it mean to her, but it is a mean and hateful thing to do to yourself.
Yeah, you are going to Hell because you are not living up to the #1 lesson taught to Christians: Forgiveness. Forgiveness is for your sake, not hers. Forgiveness is the only thing that will give you peace and stop the internal torment (also known as Hell). Let it go. It will feel good and set you free.
2006-09-27 01:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by melancholybebe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing it - it is abuse on your part and the WRONG thing to do.
I am sure you have dealt with it so you HAVE to let it go - don't you get it?
You sound very immature.
Seven years is a long time and now keeping it alive is your fault.
Will you go to hell is a different issue - do you believe in God? That determines where you go...
If you honor God or are any kind of decent person love your wife and let it go -
2006-09-27 00:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first thing you need to do is experience forgiveness. Most any pastor can show you how to do that. Then once you have experienced being forgiven you will want to forgive her. Yes untill you get forgiven there are lotsa reasons why you may go to hell but for all we know you might like your station of hell, but maybe not guess it is your decision.
2006-09-27 00:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a Job for Judge Judy
2006-09-27 00:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Royal Racer Hell=Grave © 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just get the hell out of Dodge? Then don't look back. You are in Hell right now. If you want out Get Out!!!!!!!
Life is too short for situations like the one you are in.
2006-09-27 01:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i thought you were 24 and looking for a 16 year old to suck your **** and only speak when spoken to. at least thats what you said in another answer... i really dont like you and i just wanted to let you know that if there is a hell you will be there :(.
2006-09-27 01:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you'll probably go to hell for being stupid enough to take her back. Also, it's her slutty fault that you throw it in her face too. She should have left you and then went around and boinked whomever she wanted to.
2006-09-27 00:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by Surge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask God. I'm not being sarcastic. Just pray on it. Maybe He can help you release your anger.
Remember: she hurt you with that incident once. But you hurt yourself hundreds (thousands?) of times by bringing it up over and over. Do yourself a favor and try to let it go.
2006-09-27 00:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋