I told him how much i cared about him. Didnt say i love you, but basically told him how i felt. (keep in mind that this was all done via email) The only issue was that his response was "there is not much that a man can say to that" Did i make a mistake in telling him this, should i have kept this to myself, and might i have scared him away? Yes we have talked and emailed since then, but im not sure how he felt about what i said. What should i do?
2006-09-26 17:50:39 · 12 answers · asked by Me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In addition, he and i are both adults (so im no teeny bopper), well established professionals (I am nurse, he broker), and two very driven individuals (so yes well educated) Please dont misunderstand me, he is a great guy and is totally sensitive to all of my needs. . . We do have an emotional connection, he has taken me a level of intimacy that i have never experienced (and thats actually without sex), and now with it its even better! I know that he does care about me, and i really dont want to end up getting hurt. . . thats all
2006-09-26 18:24:40 · update #1
I feel as though you should definately talk to him in person to find out what he is feeling.
You may have scared him away, but keep in mind, that if you did, he wasn't ready for commitment or a caring relationship and you are for the better now.
You should always tell people how you feel, but when it comes to emotions such as love and hate, you must do it gently (and often subtlely)
2006-09-26 17:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It relies upon on how nicely you recognize her already and also you ought with the intention to get the vibe or no longer no matter if a kiss will be exceptable. I hate it at the same time as the guy would not make an attempt to go back up with a topic to talk about so as that i'm stuck being the single to start up a talk, yet your going to the films so as that would no longer be a large deal. Oh and that i heard it is a huge one, at the same time as the lady asks you a question like "what do you want to do?" and then the guy says "i do not understand, what do you want to do?" that drives us loopy. each once and a lengthy time period its alluring to work out the guy take can charge. sturdy success and performance relaxing ;]
2016-11-24 21:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by marinaccio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where you expecting him to reciprocate or to hear what you were saying... to absorb your words or to pay you the same compliment whether or not it's genuinely his sentiments? WHAT did you expect?
Give him time. He may not know what to say (maybe it's too early) or he just might be luxuriating in his own world where he is the center of all the cosmos... (he just might be stuck up on himself), in which case, a good ol' fahion one-way ticket to hell may just be the order of things for him!
2006-09-26 17:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are far better at expressing their feelings than guys are.
But having said that, you sound like you are ready to sacrifice your need for expressions of affection from a man in order to keep him.
Next time you are physically with him, try to get him to better verbalize his feelings for you.
If he shows that he can't meet your needs then, instead of thinking that it's time to make sacrifices for him, try thinking that maybe it's time to find a guy who can fulfil your needs.
2006-09-26 18:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just told him how much you cared about him, you didnt say you loved him...So i dont think that was a mistake...I wouldnt push him by asking well, do you care about me? In time good thing come...
2006-09-26 18:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it definitely wasn't a mistake if that's really how you felt at the time. don't regret it, even if he didnt say it back.. that doesn't mena anything.. next time you see him, tell him in person then you can see his reaction and you kow how he feels about it.. saying it via email isn't very romantic or personal..
but wait for a while before telling him again (in person)
Good Luck ;-)
2006-09-26 18:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by blithe_vow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont worry much...u will get better time and better way to express urself and win ur love too.
and yes it was not ur mistake..but it was ur truthfull right.
2006-09-26 17:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by temptations_irresistible1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have kept that to yourself.
Leave him alone about his response. Don't push it or you will push him away. Men don't like talking about "feelings".
Let him bring it up if he wants to talk about it. Otherwise, pretend it never happened!
2006-09-26 17:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU TOLD HIM HOW YOU FELT AND THAT NOT WRONG
HE JUST MAY NOT FEEL AS YOU DO, BUT SINCE YOU ARE
STILL TALKING AND STUFF THAT A GOOD SIGN OF SOMETHING THAT MAY DEVELOP SO THAT HOPE. AND
WHEN READY TO TELL YOU AB0UT HOW HE FEEL
ABOUT WHAT YOU SAID, HE WILL. GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-26 17:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be true to yourself.
If he don't like it, kick his azz to the curb.
2006-09-26 17:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋