i made a mistake of telling the girl i like that i like her, so what do i do to bounce back?
Out of all the ladies out there, I'm having a hard time with this lady because I am truly,deeply inlove with her. I feel embarrased when I tried to send her a message that I like her because she laughed at it. What do i do to bounce back? is there any way?i didn't physically tell her, like i made something, like giving her clues that I like her and she laughed it. And she knows it was from me.
2006-09-26 17:12:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it wasn't a mean laugh, maybe she was embarassed. Try to figure that out... I mean, I know I laugh when I am uncomfortable or embarassed and attention like that will definitely do it. If it was a mean laugh, then forget it. If you know her well, then you will know if she was uncomfortable and didn't like it or just embarassed. If she didn't like it, just ignore her and stay hot. She's not worth it and time will tell you so.
2006-09-26 17:14:46 · answer #1 · answered by blahblah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bounce back by realizing that you have value as a person, regardless of how she feels about you. Her laughter could be a nervous reaction because she doesn't know how to respond. It could also be a complete dis. You were there; you're the best one to know what motivated her laughter.
Make friends with YOU so you don't feel like you HAVE to have a lady. Like I said, you are important as a person. God made you on purpose, knows you by name, and has a plan for you. If this gal likes you, she'll let you know. Otherwise, you'll be a generally happier person just knowing you're worthwhile as YOU.
2006-09-27 00:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thought u were joking when u sent her that message. Try asking her out and when alone with her tell u about your feelings. She might just laughed cos she was with her friends and she couldn't really say how he felt.
If she still doesn't go out with u, don't worry there will be others for u, it's her loss u seem like a sweet guy.
2006-09-27 00:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think too hard about it. Why would you waste your energy on loving someone who would laugh at you when you express your feelings to her? I guess it also depends what you did - could it have been taken the wrong way? Seriously, it's not worth the stress & energy - just put it out of your mind & work on being happy with yourself.
2006-09-27 00:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by shirazzza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she laughed it probably doesn´t mean something very serious to her. The reaction of a girl that would like you back would be a serious face like she doesn't believe it. Ask her, straight out what would you do if I really liked you? -OR- Do you like me something like that.....From those questions you will get a good answer..If she starts teasing she likes you but she also likes to play around alot so be careful...GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-27 00:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might make her nervous, maybe thats why she laughs. She may not know how to respond. She might be kicking herself wondering why she laughed. But if she really doesn't like you in that way, it's hard. But you do get over it and move on. We have all liked people who didn't like us back.
2006-09-27 00:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date another girl, she'll forget about it
mabey even get jealous-which is good for you
if she does get jealous, dont immediatly dump current girl, that'll make u seem desperate
wait a while, dump girl for unrelated issue, then ask the girl you're in love with out on a date
it might work!
2006-09-27 00:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by mariomccloud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe she was really surprise about it and didnt know what to do ... so that why she laughed. just give her sometime to consider. dont ever bounce back.
2006-09-27 00:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by Shiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Icic, interesting situation. When you see her, acknowledge that you said it with a simple "i guess it was pretty funny". Then act as if nothing happened, if she feels the same or when she does, she will let you know.
2006-09-27 00:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by bks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up an excuse to explain all the clues your are giving her.
2006-09-27 00:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋