or high maintence? even in a fairly new relationship?
Cause I think he is worth it to work through things..
2006-09-26 17:10:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relationships are made up of giving and taking. If the other person in the relationship does not know what your needs are then they are not able to give anything to you and will just end up taking what they need. To have a good relationship, you must start from day 1. There is nothing wrong with letting the other person know what you require from the relationship, but it is wrong to assume that they will give you what you need without giving them the knowledge of what it is.
2006-09-26 17:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by ladylucknc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking is the Key to any relationship. without it you have nothing .the next Key is Understanding, it does not come easy.It can also be confuseing, and frustriteing .The next Key is Time and if you have two the third well be there. good luck.
2006-09-27 00:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by macki4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only fair to be open and honest about your needs up front. No asky no getty. I know I would feel really hurt if my loved one didn't give me the chance to give them what they need because they never told me. If he really is worth it, he will be grateful that you trust him and respect him enough to open up and give him the chance to be all that for you.
2006-09-27 00:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by MadamOmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong at all to tell the other person what your needs are. That's called communication. People are not mind readers.
2006-09-27 00:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a bit longer before you bring it up, and make sure it is worth it. guys don't deal well with confrontation or female emotion.
2006-09-27 00:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by brneyes23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO JUST TALK ABOUT WHAT GOING ON, AND
HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT IT, THERE NOTHING WRONG AND
IT WILL BRING WHAT YOU NEED IN THE OPEN, AND TO
HAVE A GOOD REALTIONSHIP, THE BEST THING IS
COMMUNICATION. OTHER WISE YOU WILL HAVE NOTHING]
AT ALL.
2006-09-27 00:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No what good ia a relationship that's not open that'll end soon
2006-09-27 00:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should totally talk about it that is the key to a great relationship, honesty!!! speak it babe
2006-09-27 00:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by *Heather* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you need to maintain and fix things, why not a realationship
2006-09-27 10:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋