I've been with my boyfriend for little over a year now, recently (over the last 3 months or so) it feels like we've hit a wall. I've noticed that my eye is wandering as well as my thoughts. He rarely calls me anymore and when does its over trivial things or to ask if i'm sleeping over at his place that night.
I'm just wondering, should i move on? He keeps making comments about being together for the rest of our lives. The sex is still good don't get me wrong, but we don't seem to talk to each other any more. Any advice?
2006-09-26 17:05:49 · 7 answers · asked by FunnyGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him about your concerns he cant make any improvements on what you think is wrong unless you voice your concerns, maybe then after-wards he will show some initiative towards making things better...
2006-09-26 17:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, yet i do not precisely comprehend your question. Are you scared that they'd start up having sex because they are continually making out? You cant somewhat draw up a rule about relationships - somewhat if you've been at the same time for 7 months except that sex isn't allowed. you should purpose chatting with them and telling them that you've self belief them and to take issues sluggish and by no skill leap into sex. Be strict, yet being concerned about it and perchance you should tell them that you delight in them for following your words and advice. If it makes you sense any extra ideal, i imagine possibilities of sex is somewhat minimum for them. after all, they stay interior an identical significant different and toddlers as you consisting of your different daughter and son and husband. the position would they have sex? Plus, if you're mean about it, then it will lead them to favor to insurrection hostile to you. So like i discussed earlier, you should enable them keep in mind that you comprehend about relationships and that you're there for them no count number what, yet jointly enable them keep in mind that sex isn't an selection for them. i'm hoping each little thing works out.
2016-11-24 21:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know where your heart is. You need to spend some time alone and think about where you want to be. If you feel like he love is not as strong as once was then you first should sit down and tell him how you feel. if you are still not satisfied and curious of what else is out there then do what you have to do to be happy. Just give it careful consideration because your heart is involved. Good luck!
2006-09-26 17:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing something different something other than just gong to each others house yopu need to rekindle the romance every relationship goes through a dry spell its up to you to decide if you want to save it or move on to the first guy you think is cute if you really love this person dont do anything you might regret try and work it out or you will have just wasted a year of your life
2006-09-26 17:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you first need too decide if the relationship is worth holding on too. I hate too break it too you but relationships can get pretty boring at times. If you want the excitment of someone new then break up and move on. If not, you must understand that its not always going too be fun and games.
2006-09-26 17:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by bsd300d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's time for a break ... if you can't talk to each other then the sex will be just sex ... you need to see what's out there especially if your eye is wandering ... you'll never be happy if you just stay ...
2006-09-26 17:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU REALLY CARE FOR HIM, THEN YOU NEED TO JUST
SIT DOWN AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL, SOME TIME
YOU NEED TO JUST GET THING OUT IN THE OPEN.. YOU
KNOW HOW IT IS. YOU GET COMFORABLE THEN YOU
START TAKING EACH OTHER FOR GRANTED. SO TELL
HIM HOW YOU FEEL. GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-26 17:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋