2006-09-26 17:00:24 · 4 answers · asked by jansport178 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have doubts at all- the answer is NO! Pure and Simple.
Love is always there and present in your mind and heart. No doubts.
2006-09-26 17:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call him a "boy" so I assume this means you are both under 18. I know that using the word, "loving" really means that he likes you a lot. Love is not the word because teenagers don't have the life experience or the depth of relationships for it to be that. So your question is really, how do you know if someone like you a lot. The answer is that one knows when the "vibes" are different, stronger and better feeling than other people who really like us. It is easy to realize the difference. What is not easy is determining if his intentions are the same as yours. We can get used by others who are just really good at schmoozing us with the right words and the right facial expressions. The "womanizer" or manipulator targets women who want a boyfriend or a husband or a companion REALLY BAD. If we are that needy or desperate we cannot know if we are loved or just being set up or used. If we are sure of ourself, not given to fantasies about love as we see in soap operas or tearjerking movies, and have friends that are genuine, then we don't find ourselves caught in a situation where we are being used. If you and he are under 18 - 20, you can't "know," because you don't have any experience with which to compare this "liking" with any other "liking." That's why teens are told to value the real need they have: Study and learn well what you are being taught in school. Then one can handle the "love" thing when the real thing comes along.
Good question, we've all asked it of ourselves before.
2006-09-27 00:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wen a boy loves u, u already know it, bcuz of the way he is reacting. He's always there for u, he cares so much and he gives u so much attention. but u hafta becareful cuz u never know if he might b playin u! but im sure he's not. good luck!
2006-09-27 00:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by Florentina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he would look at you all the time, go out of his way to talk to you, looks bored and passive when you're not there, he would be caring and ask you about your daily troubles and hopefully try to sovle them if he can. more than anything, he would care, he would quickly try and become your best friend.
2006-09-27 00:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by monotonous_life7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋