2006-09-26 16:56:02 · 21 answers · asked by ang268 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoever wants it most, needs to make the move. Doesn't matter which one does it to make it a magic moment if the attraction is there.
2006-09-26 17:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Pundit Bandit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is totally sexy when a girl makes the first move. It shows that she knows what she wants.
2006-09-26 23:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If there's a really good vibe between the two of you, you could say in a soft, sexy voice, "Well, do you want to kiss me goodnight?"
If he says "No," the date didn't go as well as you thought. If he moves in for the kill, well, your ploy worked.
I'd let him make the actual move, though.
2006-09-27 00:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i see nothing wrong with it. i mean who cares who makes the first move, as long as someone does it. i dont think its the guy's "job" to do it, and why does it make a girl look slutty if she wants to kiss a guy? big deal. it just says that she's confident, not easy. it would say shes easy if she just met him and after she kissed him they had sex. but kissing and sex are not the same thing, obviously.
2006-09-27 00:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did it...back in 1996...and this past August we celebrated 8 years. Make a move, but keep it subtle. Guys seem to like it when a girl makes a move... but not if they are overbearing and/or aggressive. Be a lady and sweetly guide him there.
2006-09-27 00:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by B L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really it kind of makes them look trashy and easy. If he likes you he will make the 1st move and never kiss on the 1st date of kiss and tell, Just think he may have mono or something.... Keep yourself safe
2006-09-27 00:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by mommy2faithat19#3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? What makes it so wrong for the woman to make the move? It might not be traditional, but, if the feeling is there you should go for it.
2006-09-26 23:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so, yet the old ways, work really well. Let him think he is making the move. Slowly brush against him and turn and look up and just stare in his eyes. If he is unsure, then just say, you are just so adorable right now. BAM. you got him
2006-09-27 00:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me old fashioned, but while I think you should - I say SHOULD - be able to do whatever you want (equal rights and all), it may still be seen as a bit slutty. Don't get me wrong, a guy would LOVE it, it's great for their ego. But it may give them the wrong impression.
2006-09-27 00:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes you look pushy and needy. Wait until he makes the first move. What are you going to do next.. be the first one to unzip his pants?
2006-09-26 23:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋