She says she doesnt want to kiss a smoker but she knew I was a smoker before we got together. I like smoking so much it feels so good I dont want to quit. So she said either no smoking or no booty what should I do?
2006-09-26 16:53:10 · 24 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't blame her. I for one told my boyfriend the same thing. Guess what? He's been using the patch and the gum. He smokes here and there but basically has commited to be a non-smoker. That is how much he cares for me. That shows that he cares more about me and his health that he can kick his terrible habit of over 15 years. He has been smoking for 15 years and never quit for more than 2 months. But he hasn't smoked steady for about 4 months now... You can do it, and your girlfriend's booty and your health will be your incentive.
2006-09-26 17:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not like she's the last girl in the world. But I had a bf that knew I didn't like smoking so he quit all together and I didn't even ask him. That was the most romantic thing. Right now I'm dating someone who said they'd cut back once I moved here (a state away), but it fizzled soon after. So I'm pretty ticked. It depends on whether or not you had an agreement. She shouldn't say you can't touch her. Try doing something like say you'll quit smoking if she quits doing something you don't like. Does she get pedicures or something that she doesn't need to do like a bad habit or shopping too much? Affection and intimacy shouldn't be traded for smoking.
2006-09-26 16:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you even have to ask should let you know just how addicted you are to those things. But, I say find someone who is a smoker too, lecturing you to quit is just a waste of time because you gotta want to quit before you will do it. My boyfriend smokes and as long as he smokes outside on the porch and not around me I really don't care. The smell of it on him doesn't bother me, I do insist he shower before bed, and when I am outside and he has one lit I stay up wind from it. I will not harass him to quit smoking, he knows its wrong but the addiction is stronger. When he's ready.............etc.
2006-09-26 17:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Honeygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should quit smoking. Eventually, the smoking will affect your breathing and general health - which will make having sex much harder. It would suck if you were making love to the gf and got lots of booty, but suddenly had to stop because you were short of breath or started coughing up tar. I think that would kill the mood for your girlfriend, don't you?
2006-09-26 16:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well heres an idea,take an ashtray thats used empty it do not clean and lick it.this is what your gf tastes when she kisses you,i m a male and cant stand when a girl smoke and i smoked for eight years quit 12 years ago, not to mention how healthier you will feel,but if want keep on smoking.i would quit if i were you.good luck
2006-09-26 16:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the booty man. Smoking can kill u. Always pick booty over smoking. I'm sure touching your girl will feel much better than smoking. You'll probably get addicted to sex than smoking.
2006-09-26 16:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Yay Area 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I do feel that you should quit smoking, but I don't feel like you should let her threat of with-holding the goods be the reason why you quit. If you quit because of this, she will with-hold sex from you EVERY time she wants you to do, or not do, something!
2006-09-26 17:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up the smoking, its for your benefit!! If you really care about her, you will quit. Despite her knowing that you were a smoker before you started dating, you need to make that sacrifice... Good Luck
2006-09-26 16:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to sit down and discuss things. Sit down with her and ask her straight. You have the right to know where you stand, ask her why she no long texts or shows affection and tell her how this makes you feel. you need to lie you cards on the table, no one deserves to be messed around! If shes cold towards you and is emailing other men, its a very bad sign!
2016-03-18 01:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont smoke never have never will. Where i work at women who are pregnant smoke which i find deplorable . Now if you didnt smoke before the relationship i would understand her badgering you but come on ....she knew .If she is that controlling now dude ......its only going to get worse.
2006-09-26 17:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋