My partner complains that I'm not spontaneous.
2006-09-26 16:41:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, that's usually my problem. However, it's gotta be something a little more deeply rooted that you didn't know to mention. So I'll tell you why that happened to me. My husband has been with only one woman, me. So he hasn't had the opportunity to get "experience". We started out as friends and that plays a huge roll in our relationship. When we get intimate, he just uses the sh!t he sees on internet porno. So, he says stuff like, "you're a $5 whore who needs to be f#ck$d." and such, and he doesn't think that foreplay does anything for sex but take too long for him. I don't like to do THAT kind of dirty talk, and I'm usually not "ready" and then he gets upset thinking I'm no longer attracted to him, wich obviously is not the case. Plus, I feel that sex is intimate and romantic, yes yes I'm one of those kind of girls. So, after telling him many times that I don't like it when he says that kind of stuff to me and that we need to do foreplay or it hurts me down there (which is true), he stupidly continues to do it. After a while, I don't really look forward to sex because I know he's gonna say some sh!t that's gonna piss me off and I don't look forward to the rawness afterwards from not enough of ready time. I actually try to do differant things to keep it new and exciting so that we don't run into those problems again. Which has been going good now. Especially since he's in the Army and has been gone and home a lot on and off now, so the not seeing each other so much helps us in the bedroom department. I hope this helped.
2006-09-26 16:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by afafae25 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband complains We don't have enough oral sex on his part, and alot of times we don't have enough alone time. His idea or sexy is my idea of stripper. There are sex books you can buy to help spice up your sex life. Don't be to shy to buy to browse these books or sites many people have this problem and it is better corrected than left as is. Sex is apart of being married either you do it and you make wild of it or you do it and don't enjoy it, many couples have ended their marriages over their spouse just giving up on the spice in their life. Here is a book to check out 365 positions and actives to have a year of great sex great BOOK. Good luck and happy bing binging!!!!!
2006-09-26 16:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by mommy2faithat19#3 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That i dont give him head long enough. But he takes 4ever 2 come.
2006-09-26 16:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tameka S 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nothing - he's the lazy one and I'm the one always making suggestions!
2006-09-26 16:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Head Job. i say give me massage you get head job. neither of us is winning at the moment
2006-09-26 16:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ange 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i'm divorced but any lovers i have never complain about a thing
2006-09-26 16:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
my boyfriend doesnt complain we do it all the time
2006-09-26 16:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
he complain's that i don't take charge enough
2006-09-26 16:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It used to be that I didn't start sex
2006-09-26 16:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-26 16:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by tampabayfriends 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋