why does my boyfeiend complain so much when the dont get enough?

Question

hi. my b/f and i usually havesex one to 2 times a week, but he is always horny. he says he enjoys it but he constantly has an erection. if we dont have sex 2ice a week, he get angry, agrues about it.. . he think when i say no, and im healthy that this isnt a legit reason. he think the only time i should say no is if im menstrating. he makes a big deal out of it, puts on a guilt trip, by asking if i want to make him feel good, and stil complains even if he gets oral, b/c its not the same as sex. even if i dont have sex with him when he thinks i should, he says i ruined his day, and walks around being grumpy yelling at people and barely talking to me. this isnt just a sexual relationship, but he is highly sexual. other than this, he is a good person, he is inteligent and is there 4 me, but this sex thing had been an iussue for the yr we havebeen 2gether. he cries if i let him go to bed horny, and the next day doesnt talk to me. he says i should make sure hes taken care of. iv

ive talked to his mom who says if ure not his wife u dont owe his n e thing. ive talked to him and said i felt pressure, and i do feel used at times, because he makes is soo dramatic. i mean he allows it to control his moods, and when i say no, he questions me, and thinks its his fault, thats hes not doing somehting right, and then if i do have sex with him he wants more and i feel obligated, thus not really enjoying it SOMETIMES. im gettin sick of it. the quesiton is though--- i know what i should do break up, but i do care alot..is his attiude controling, immature, what do u think?

Answer 1

Honey, if you are not up to it, don't do it. But his sexual appetite will be like that maybe for several more years. Some people need it more than others. Hell, I'm kinda like that. I wish me and my hubby would have sex every night. Luckily, he can kinda keep up. Guys are usually more in need of sex than women. But it sounds like you guys aren't on the same page. He shouldn't get all moody, but you guys need to figure something out. He's gonna keep being mean, and he may eventually take on Mistresses to fill his needs if you don't. I hope I'm wrong, but sounds like you guys may even need counseling if you want to find a happy medium.

Answer 2

damn, this relationship sounds so similar to one I had when i was 21. I was with this guy for only a year though until I dumped his @$$. Your bf is acting VERY immaturely and is giving you a guilt trip. Whether you want to face it or not, this relationship IS purely based on sex since he isn't happy when he isn't cumming. Please realize that you deserve better and end the relationship now. You are more than just a "c*m dumpster" or a wet pu$$y. He's treating you like a sex object. You don't owe him a thing. Stop allowing him to play this game on you and end the relationship. This guy isn't marriage material.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

not trying 2 crtisize, but do u know how rong that is ? god says that sex is supposed to be saved for your honeymoon. just think when you get married, to this guy or someone else maybe, what will be so special about it ? everything you have was already been taken from you. if you marry someone else, imagine how they will feel, if you have already "done it" they will feel like just another one of your sex toys. think about that...


if u want to find out more about how u could turn you life around, or maybe you and your boyfriend yould get a christian guidence counclor.

p.s. im only 12 ...

Answer 5

good sex is like 2 times aday

Answer 6

I wouln't consider twice a week being healthy. I think that would be a bit too seldom for me too, especially if you live together.

Answer 7

So, he's a control freak.

Do you want to be in control, or have him be in control?

2 words for your post honey...sexual abuse.

Now, one question...are you going to stay, or are you going to go?

I hope it's go.

Answer 8

if he wants to abuse you sexually, you shouldnt be saying that you care about him, because relationships run both ways, he needs to care about you if you are going to care about him. so either drop, him or continue being sexually abused