Im 21, Ive been broken up with my ex for 4 or 5 months now after a 2 and a half yr relationship (very close). Unfortunately I was deeply in love with this girl(I wish I wasn't). Im at the point where I feel I'll never be with someone like that again and I try telling myself otherwise, but i cant shake this feeling no matter what.
2006-09-26 16:14:38 · 14 answers · asked by James 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some might have read this wrong, but most of you understood. Im not with anyone what-so-ever, or even have the chance to be and thats my problem. There is no "other" girl at all.
2006-09-26 16:39:32 · update #1
You are still young and still have a long way to go in life.
It is going to hurt for a while, don't fool yourself that it won't. But life is funny that way. Some one will come into your life when you least expect her to. She is going to rock your world so hard that you won't even remember "what's her name". Trust me, you will live and Ms. Right will come your way. You may already know her, but you just haven't had the heart tug in her direction YET.
Take your time this time and maybe you will feel the tugging sooner than you think.
2006-09-26 16:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mary D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you guys broke up b/c of the fact that you loved this other girl? If so, then you sound like you don't really like this other girl if you're asking how to get over the relationship with the girl you really loved. Try telling your ex how you feel and how you made a mistake. If you brokw up b/c of something else, then i can't help you there. If you really think the girl is right for you, why did you give her up? You really may never find someone else like her again so ask/talk to her about it some more b/c true love only comes once! GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-26 23:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by M.Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was reading a book about relationships. it said to get over someone you take the time you were together and then divide it in half. I was in a similar situation. And the book was right. I'm back in the game! Havin' fun. I'm sure I'm still bound to have my heart broken, as are you. That's life. Just move on. There are plenty of women in this world. And most of them are actually looking for a guy like you. SOme one that can't get you out of their head. Hope all ends well w/ you. Good luck in finding someone new. I'm 21 also, I know that it seems like your getting to the pt. were it's time to start actin' all grown up. Just try to focus on other things. Friends, job, school. Whatever you have going for you.
Kandice
2006-09-26 23:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kandi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 21 years old and trust me you have not lived yet. There is a reason why it didnt work out and your confidence is just shot right now. The best is to be around people that allow you to voice your concerns and to find things that make you happy. Its normal to be sad after the loss of anything. But your ex's loss could be someone else's gain
2006-09-26 23:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're still young. It seems like the world is coming to an end now, but time heals all wounds. You will meet someone when the time is right. Until then, take your time, live life to its fullest, and enjoy being single.
2006-09-26 23:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by ruby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's going to take a bit of time for your heart to heal, and I'm so sorry for your pain. I'm still not over a love long lost and it's been over 25 years now (sigh). But I promise you, slowly but surely, you will feel the sun on your face again and you will love again.
2006-09-26 23:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hon, i was just in that situation feeling the exact same way you do- only our relationship lasted 3 years (ok- he broke up with me a month before our 3 year anniversary) after 4 months of not being together he came back. i accepted. you have to find a way to distract yourself or if you want her back, try to prove to her youre more worthy this time. i dont know why you broke up but every break up is hard. you have to try to accept it and focus on yourself. your young. you have plenty of time to find the right one. maybe youll find that she was a stepping stone and youll find someone better! keep smiling!
2006-09-26 23:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by Candymoonangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you fall in love many times in your life. My grandmother told me that you WILL suffer from a month to a year to maybe 2 years!! But sooner or later you would heal. I bet there are many people that are dying to go out with you
2006-09-26 23:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel but go on w/ life u can like her or even love her but remember she is prob happy and u want that for her and look at it this way u have ur whole lif ahead of u and there r other girls out there give one a shot
2006-09-26 23:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by czdrammaqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to heal ... your right you won't feel that way again because you felt that way with her ... you'll feel something completely different when you find the right one .. your young and you've been with her for a long time ... just focus on you right now and don't look for someone
2006-09-26 23:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋