Older woman likes me??????????????? She's 40 and I am a 20something?

Question

My co-workers have told me that there's this divorced woman (early 40's, but looks YOUNGER), at the office, who seems to find me attractive. This statement has also been claimed by the woman's closest female friend.

The problem is: She's OLDER than I am, but looks good.

However, when I see her, she acts like she there's nothing going on and greets me as if she HAD to. Her closest female friend, though, ALWAYS teases her while I am nearby.

I am very curious whether this all is true or not or whether this could be part of just a joke. How can I find out?

What do you think???

Answer 1

She might have a crush on you, but won't let it go any further. I think the age difference is too much for this to work out. Plus, you work with her and that is always difficult because you have to face one another at work, if things progress and then don't work out, etc. Sounds like the rumor mill is buzzing big time at your place of employment. Red Flag.

Answer 2

Why can no longer a 40 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous which includes you? once you're stunning, you're likable to each and every age. Do you imagine of once you're older you'll like truly older human beings? youthful body is eye-catching, crammed with ability, etc. do no longer problem finding out - she likes you! even likely too lots, so she has to regulate herself. yet... the charm isn't each and every project. once you turns into previous you'll are conscious of it too. So, go away it on my own. it may opt to feed your vanity, yet do no longer shrink to rubble which includes her, on the grounds that you will be able to damage her. it quite is already a situation for you that she is older! So truly drop it. a lady at 40 does no longer assume or have self perception in a severe relationship with a youthful guy. yet crashes do ensue...She may opt to truly seek for some style of a fling merely to juice up her boring existence or get some vanity going (i'm though an alluring lady... and that i'm so lonely) i have were given self perception that it quite is quite accessible that 2 souls locate one yet another in spite of the a even as of their bodies... inspite of the straightforward undeniable truth that it does no longer sound that this can incredible be a case.

Answer 3

I'm in the same situation, except I am the woman(41) and he's 20. He and I are close friends and hug and stuff. That's were my problem came in. I had to determine where the line was between friends and more was. Does she have someone in her life? Do you? I slowed up when HE got a girlfriend! If you do decide to date her, then date her and not her age. Date her for the right reasons. Same reasons you would date someone your age. Not to tell some Mrs. Robinson story to your buddies. Ask her to lunch. There, I've said it! She eats! Maybe even with you! Who knows? You won't unless you try to find out. See if her friend thinks she'd go.

Answer 4

Y bother to b curious? If u dun think thing will work out for both of u (cos of the age gaps) then u should just leave her alone n pretend u hear ntg....dun hurt tat "poor" woman she is already in her 40's she can afford to hv another heart break....pls b kind enough to stay aways if u r nt serious.... n remember never eat n shi t at the same place...

Answer 5

That reminds me of Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher, who are of the same ages in your situation and haven't let it slow them down in the least. If you're interested in pursuing her, ask her if she'd like to have a drink with you after work some time. It sounds like she likes you, but might just be too concerned about the potential for a sexual harassment entanglement with you (if you weren't inclined) to act on her attraction. Meeting outside of the work environment and with the help of a little "liquid courage" might be the combination she needs to tell you how she really feels about you.

Answer 6

Good, you haven't gotten involved yet - do don't. This would never work out (good anyway). What about when she's 60 and you are 40? She'll have gotten old and you will still look about the same as you do now. A bit more muscular, maybe a few grays but otherwise - no change.

Answer 7

AM almost in the same problem.I like this guy that is younger then I.I gave him my phone number but I don't know if I should of done this.He is younger but........He is very good looking.The thing is I never Did that to no guy before.AM afraid that earthier one of us will get teats left in wright.My friend does that to me .I think she gust think it is cute.
Well what I said to that You only live once.Forget about what your friend said.I don't think she would play a joke on an person.Just try and call her if she gave you her phone #.Maybe If things don't work out.You gust have a female friend to get advice.

Answer 8

If you think that she is attractive I say go for it. The odds are that the people in your office are not lying about her liking you. Office gossip usually spreads quick especially since its true. So even if she is acting nonchalant, and her friend is telling you that she is feeling you. I say go for it, if you are attracted to her. You can learn alot from an older woman.

Answer 9

i would not give much thought to it unless you have some sort of mother complex. the fact is she probably finds you attractive and maybe it's just a fantasy to be in your 40's and hit it with the cute 20something yr old guy at work...but if she knows what is probably smarter she'll avoid crossing the line into reality.
I'd say smile, be your natural self at work and not pay much mind to this unless you want to deal with some baggage and unecessary problems in the longrun.

Answer 10

Dude, go for it, man. I have always dated older women. You would be amazed at how fun they are. Serious... They are nothing like some of the girls in their early to mid 20's who can at times be immature, materialistic, and mean. Older women have been there, done that, and believe it or not, they can teach you a thing or two. As a matter of fact, I am dating someone who is 38, and I am 29. I say go for it.