i'm 13, how does it feell to lose your mother?

Question

my mom is in very weak state. she needs to carry a surgery. i'm very scared what might happen. how would you feel if you lost your mother? have any of you lost your parents at this age?

Answer 1

I am 51 and I do not think it hurts any less the older one gets. I think the difference is that we understand, accept and reason our way through it. I am sorry your mother is ill, just know that you have to be there to give her your love and help her through it, just as she will do anything in her power to help you. It is terrible to think about losing a parent yet we all do at some time or another. The loss of my parent left such a large gap in my heart and life, and we were not all that close. I cannot imagine how you must be feeling, hold your head high and do the things you know in your heart she would want you to do.

Answer 2

Remember this ... your mother loves you, you love her! Love doesn't change it can grow distant, it can be hard to hold ...but loves will never go away. I hope your mom does well ... and lives a long life so the both of you can share it together.
Just remember sometimes life has other plans for us ... and we don't always get the time we wish we had. Make the most of every day and be grateful for what you do have .... never dwell of what might have been ... always recall the good times you share with her ... even now when she's not feeling well.

The fact is we all loose are parents some day ..... So just don't waste what time you have with your family & friends .... try to enjoy each moment ..... hope for more ...but be greatful for what you have !

Answer 3

Your question has made me wonder how it feels to sit alone at your computer at night, being 13, and worry that you're going to lose your mother. I have a 13 year old daughter, and if she had this worry, I would want her to find someone who cared about her to hug, hang onto, and cry on if needed.

I hope your mom come out of her surgery just fine. Either way, I'm sorry you had to go through this. You are learning a lot about life. Even if you feel alone right now, you aren't. If you can find someone who will hug you, do that. Maybe even wake them up.

Answer 4

I lost my dad when I was 10. He wasn't even sick. He was in car with his girlfriend and died there. After he died, I became very depressed and developed an eating disorder, which I had until I sook treatment at age 16.

I'm really sorry about your mom and I hope she recovers well from her surgery.

*hugs*

Answer 5

I lost my mom when I was 12 to cancer and it was very hard on me. For a long time I didnt want to talk to anybody and I thought God had let me down. After a while though you just have to suck it up and deal with it. You have to get back to earth and know that you're still mourning inside but you need to get along with regular life. You just have to think about what she would've wanted for you. And I know that she would've wanted me to go back to school and keep on playing sports and have a great life.

Answer 6

I lost my Dad when I was 18 and it was hard, but time does help. I hope your Mom goes through her surgery ok....just think positive thoughts for her! Don't worry right now....it won't help anything. Be strong and keep smiling!

Answer 7

Its hard see your priest or counselor at school but remember everything has a reason. My friend died at 35 (I am 56) and although it hurts if you have a father then get closer to him or relatives. Please talk to all in your circle. I hope she gets better.

Answer 8

time brother time. i feel your pain I lost my older brother and a son.give it time,you'll never stop missing him but you'll grow to accept it.

take care

Answer 9

i wouldnt no but i hope your mom is ok

Answer 10

go get counseling....