If lie is spoken,not to hurt anyone,then why to do such a thing where one has to lie.I feel first doing such a thing knowingly that your wife / husband will get hurt & then justifying yourself by saying that "I lied to you as I never wanted to hurt you". Double Blunder.
No relation can be built on such grounds. What's the solution?
2006-09-26 15:57:55 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get a new relationship. Relationships can't be built on lies. You tell a lie and then you have to cover it with another lie and so on. Pretty soon your going to trip yourself up on which lies you used to cover up which lie. Your better off just telling the truth and taking the consequences. You can't trust someone that lies.
2006-09-26 16:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill em all and let god sort em out, i dont know dont lie i guess, everybody lies even the pope lied about being sorry , get over it u do know there is and aids epedemic affecting the world, worry about that i am lying 2 right know telling u that , that was a good, question because it was more of a statement(thought) that u had. GET OVER IT.
2006-09-26 16:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh! it truly is terrible, if he changed into my boyfriend it may already be over! i imagine that mendacity and dishonest are completely unacceptable, excecially dishonest...it doesnt remember how in the previous he did it, he cheated and also you're better effective than that. that isn't only a friendship...thats them flirting and wanting eachother, and if it changed into me i'd initiate a wrestle with the ***** for even declaring those issues...and if he were given mad at you for it then identity yell at him n say that you're his female friend no longer her...next time you word him on my own, i'd ask him if hese been mendacity or dishonest, merely straight away up ask him, and once you've that gut feeling that he's, or hese mendacity, identity be executed with him...i dont wanna damage you're relashionship yet all that guy sounds like isn't something yet a project.
2016-12-02 03:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically i think two types of liers. One is lies intentionally, and the other one lies because of circumstential reasons.We must try to understand the difference.We should not forgive the intentional liers,but should have some soft corner to others.Truthful behaviour is always the best path for peaceful and happy life.
2006-09-26 18:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by bigboss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness.
Many things have been done for love. Try to understand the mind of the other. Try to think as if you were that person, and you love the other. Who is in this case, you.
Forgive. Love requires forgiveness. No matter what culture. This can be difficult.
Think outside your normal frame of reference. Think rationally.
Man has betrayed Allah many times. Yet Allah does not give up on man. Allah continues to send us teachings, and teachers, in hopes we will submit and seek Him. Can you not forgive your loved one?
2006-09-26 16:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think a lie here and there will hurt. It is about what that is being lied about.
2006-09-26 19:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The solution is to think of the consequences before you act on anything.
2006-09-26 15:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats exactly right. think how you would feel if the role was to be reversed. lies just dont pay. i dont know how but the truth always comes out. that little concious jimminy cricket always gets to me.
2006-09-26 16:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Ange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy - Discard all liars, cheats, and thieves from your life. Doing so make your life so much easier and more worthwhile.
2006-09-26 16:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to maintain comercial relationships in present modern high tech financial system.
2006-09-27 09:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋