There is this girl at my school, let's call her Girl A, that I really like, but just haven't gotten up the courage to ask her out yet. A really close friend of mine says that another girl, Girl B, and I would make a "cute couple" (her words not mine). I don't want to go out with Girl B if I still have feelings for Girl A, but I don't want to hurt Girl B's feelings either. WHAT SHOULD I DO???
2006-09-26 15:56:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with your instincts....Girl A
Forget about hurting Girl B's feeling....she hasn't even gone out with you...how can she be hurt?
If I were you though....I would get up the courage to ask out Girl A....what have you got to lose?
good luck
2006-09-26 16:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by xxx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to girl B and tell her your feeling for her are not of the dating kind .... be nice , be sincere. Open communication is a must. Settle the whole "B" drama be for you even attempt the "A" girl.
Once your settled them talk to "A" to find out if the dating thing is a go ..... but don't be surprised if she says she doesn't have dating feeling for you like that.
Karma is strange like that.
Be sure why your interested in the A girl ....are you sure B has no potential at all?
These are one way doors ...once you step through ....they close behind you ...
Choose well ...think it through.
Happy Hunting !
2006-09-26 16:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask out girl A because you have no obligation to girl B at this point. If girl A turns you down, you can then ask out girl B. If you get to that point, and if she likes you, then you can date for a while and see if you like her back. That way, no ones feelings get hurt.
2006-09-26 16:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don`t have feelings for girl B then i don`t think you should go for her cause sooner or later you guys will be the HISTORY couple not the cute couple . and you`ll end up hurting your friendship w/ her and you don`t want that. and as for girl A . like everyone says GO FOR IT ! i know how you feel . it`s not as easy as it sounds tho . i guess you should get to know girl A before you make any move . either way . good luck ! =]
2006-09-26 16:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant go through life being afraid of hurting someones feelings or getting your feelings hurt. Ask girl A out and if she says no then pursue girl b IF THAT IS WHAT YOU WANT! people say me and my dog look cute together, but you don't see me dating it.
2006-09-26 16:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by mosierjuly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go woth you heart. Girl a. If you are a good guy and a real one too. Cause if u dont it means 1. U r a chiken and 2. Ur a player that goes after looks
2014-06-25 06:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by coco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get up the courage to ask girl a out see were it go if it don't work than ask girl b out. don't go out with someone you don,t wont Togo outwith just because your friend said that you and her would make a cute couple.you like girl a so ask her out. be for you go to girl b.
2006-09-26 16:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go with girl B because you would just end up hurting her more in the long run. As for girl A just go for it. What do you have to lose? Good luck
2006-09-26 16:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok answer this question: do u want to do what you WANT or suffer for the rest of ur love life with someone you don't like.
and realize this.... if A girl likes u and u go out with B girl u will hurt the person you LIKE
2006-09-26 16:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a test run try going out with one for a while then switch off and go out with the other one. make up a pretty good excuse though unless you tell her and blah blah blah. then pick which one you like better. or you could just go with girl a i mean you obviously like her more than girl b. go with your gut. there i gave you 3 choices man i'm good.
2006-09-26 16:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by tomfeltonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋