ok i will explain this situation and you all tell me what i should do.. this guy i truely like i been friends with for a while and we talk and do stuff for one another and support each other in whatever happens in our lives... the promblem is now he interested in my best friend and he doing all the stuff that he use to do for me for her... and its annorying me and he says he still cares about me but likes my best friend more then me... how i figured out he liked her well they go to the same school together and stuff i and one day she was explaining this guy she met and then it hit me who it was it was that guy i like... then she had to ask me if it was the guy. i didn't say anything but i figured she would get the hint on everything. my question is should i be mad at the best friend or the guy or neither and get over it? because i still have feelings for him and now that he likes my best friend that made it even harder to tell him how i feel... what should i do??? please help!!!!
2006-09-26 15:15:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow - too long for me...
2006-09-26 15:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like, he thought the two of you were friends and not going out. It is strange, how he happened to choose your best friend. I guess if you want to keep both friends, you are going to have to move on and find yourself another guy. Next time, if you really care about a guy, you'd best let him know.
2006-09-26 15:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoulda' told him in the first place. Now see where it got you? Be mad at yourself, not him or her. All you can do is be honest and tell him how you feel and her how you feel. Get your emotions/feelings out there. Things will take care of themselves after that. Maybe he will realize he has feeling for you more than her, maybe not. At least you will have put out everything on the table so to speak.
:)
2006-09-26 15:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by Boodie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you have a reason to be mad at either one of them. It sounds like the guy never knew how you felt about him so now he is into your friend. If it is really bothering you, you should talk to both of them and tell them how you feel. Good luck.
2006-09-26 15:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer is obvious. He said he likes your best friend more than you. What could be more clear? Move on and certainly don't tell him how you feel. That would be embarrassing under the circumstances.
2006-09-26 15:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel and be prepaird to take rejection. He may just tell you he is not intersted in you but at least you will know the score then.
2006-09-26 15:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your best friend should dump his ****. boyfriends come and go but if she is really a good friend, i would choose her over him. no guy worth your heart would engage you to get into a catfight.
2006-09-26 15:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by evonne i 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋