Okay, here goes... Obviously, I'm fourteen, and I like this guy. I've known him for three years, but we've only started hanging out this summer... That was when I started liking him as more than a friend. And I know he was interested for at least a little bit, because he was asking my friends about me and flirting all the time, and we wen't to the movies with a few of our friends and he let me lean into him and everything. He even called me after. But now, he told my friend he likes someone else, and he sits with her on the bus and all. But I swear he kindof likes me, because he's always really close to me, even if we're working together in school he's like 2 inches away from me! And he always tries to make me laugh, above any of the other girls... but like I said, I haven't seen him when he's with this other girl, and I'm not sure what to think... I mean, if he didn't like her, why would he sit with her and everything?? I'm just confused. Any help?
2006-09-26 15:08:19 · 4 answers · asked by xxEquestrianxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 17:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is way to young to commit to a serious relationship and so are you. focus on having fun and getting through school. he is probably enjoying the discovery of dating and doesn't want to settle with one girl right now. i don't blame him.
2006-09-26 22:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he ask you out on a date
2006-09-26 22:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by jessegriffin@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him how he really feel and tell him how you feel
2006-09-26 22:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by chocolatedrop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋