ok.... just last week i found out one of my best friends is bi.well i didn't see her any different.not until she told me she liked me kinda....just yesterday!i didn't really know how to react(it was all texting)so i pretenden nothing really happened.i asked her what if i liked her that way.then she said she would ask me out!well i have a boyfriend and i can't help but wonder what it would be like to be with a girl(yeah were both 13)so we still go to school....but it would be on the down low.and now she is dateing another girl:X
i don't know what to say to her 2morrow or how to act...so HELP!!!
2006-09-26 15:07:20 · 7 answers · asked by Nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u just gotta tell her u dont like her that way. at 13, u r still curious with your sexuality, and she is probably just bi-curious. the difference between bi and bi-curious, is that if u r bi, u know for sure that u r bi, but if u r bi-curious, u r just experimenting, working ou what things are like. many girls get with other girls while they're growing up, but turn out straight. let her work it out, but if u have a bf, stay away. no doubt u r also bi-curious, from the way u said thatg u wondered what it would be like to be with another girl, but dont hurt your bf. good luck
lots of luv,
ezza
p.s i have had experiences like this before, if u want me to tell u about them, or u need more help, email me at ezzaphill@yahoo.com.au
2006-09-26 15:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by ezzaphill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that can be kind-of scary. If you like her then maybe you should try to think of what kind of a relationship you are willing to get into. If you dont tell her that your just not ready to think about another relationship and you already have a committment to your boyfriend.
good luck
2006-09-26 22:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are bi to? you said you cant help but wonder what it would be like. a normal straight female who likes guys only wouldent have that thought and wonder about it. sounds like you need to work threw this and figure out a few things. just be honest with your b/f about it.
2006-09-26 22:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has feelings of sexual curiosity. However to act on them could be emotionally devastating and leave you more confused than before. Be cautious when acting out your curiosity. Curiosity killed the cat!
2006-09-26 22:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by warriorprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both 13 and you're discussing bi-dating? Wow, what are people feeding their kids these days? LOL
Seriously, if you're not bi, tell her the truth and just stay friends. If she can't handle it, then she has to deal with it.
2006-09-26 22:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her tell her how you feel it would be cheating because she has a boy freind and yes it is on the down low
2006-09-26 22:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by homer s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
acty normal u were just curose every one goes throgh it some time
2006-09-26 22:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by my_emo_romance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋