There are all these people trying to break me and my bf up by telling him lies and flirting with him because they hate me...WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-09-26 15:05:44 · 10 answers · asked by cookiemvh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ignore them.
2006-09-26 15:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can be so so tough, and unfair, try to get alone time with your bf and explain that the things he is hearing are lies. The flirting part of wow, well if he is responding maybe you do not want him as a bf anyway, But if he is not then the alone time will help. If he ask for his space give it. I just learned this one the hard way.
2006-09-26 22:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by trip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, WHY.?? Who ever these people are why do you persist
in befriending them. Ignore there snide remarks.Find other friends. A genuine relationship is built on trust. if you both trust each other, there are no fears on either side. However if your BF has knowledge of what's going on, It might be a good idea to ask him to squash the rumours while your with him.
Two sides too a story generally.
2006-09-26 22:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by aotea s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find a way to get them all in the same place at once with your boyfriend and bring it up. If your boyfreind believes you anyways, then you should have no worries. If the "lies" are true you should probably just try to convince him otherwise. By the sounds of it however, it is not true. You should change your friends-BUT-only after you get things sorted out. would write more, but have to pi$$------good luck!
2006-09-26 22:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by randall w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you and your boyfriend have a strong relationship? Does he trust you? Have you ever given him a reason not to? If you answered these questions yes, yes, no....stop worrying what these other people are trying to do. Talk to your boyfriend, let him know what's going on. Things like these others are doing have a way of backfiring, HARD.
2006-09-26 22:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from these haters. When my husband and I were dating, his freinds hated me and still do. So, I told my hubby that I didnt care that he has been freinds since they were kids, it was either them or me.... and now we dont talk to them haters
2006-09-26 22:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show them ur not going anywhere. talk to your bf about it and see what he says. if he's true to you then he'll stay strong to you and not let the others bother him..
2006-09-26 22:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm i dont know my friend is going through that right now but i would just talk to him staright on about how u feel about him i guessssss
2006-09-26 22:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by my_emo_romance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your relationship and ignore the wenches.
2006-09-26 22:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them....if he believes what they are saying then he's not worth it.
2006-09-26 22:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by asiantomato84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋