I am just wanting to know if my kids are gonna feel differently. I am just really confused. Can someone help me?
2006-09-26 15:05:32 · 15 answers · asked by jen 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I don't think so. I have 3 biological children, 4 adopted children & 2 foster children. One of my adopted children is biracial - he is absolutely beautiful!! Strangers look at us funny sometimes but I think they're just trying to figure out if all these kids are mine or what?? LOL My daughter is due Oct 16 and her baby is biracial. My Zackery (my biracial son) says she is going to be "brown like me". YOUR attitude will shape how your other children feel. Good luck to you!!
2006-09-26 15:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by dmommab@sbcglobal.net 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with having any biracial children, but you are going to only feel it is wrong if you keep thinking it may be wrong. You children may ask some questions depending on the age, but you know what, children are curious and will always. I think that you will be fine. A child is a child and it doesn't matter what race they are. Just be happy and do not worry about it. The more you worry the worse it will feel for you. Just think of it as everything is good and you have another beautiful child that entered in your life to add to the other 3 beautiful children. And how I always see it, it doesn't matter what other people think, it only matters what you think and your family and I am sure your family will be happy either way!
2006-09-26 22:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by ♫~Princess~♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kids aren't going to feel that anything is wrong unless you make them feel that way. Never point out any differences between them. They will grow up together and even though they will notice differences, it probably won't seem that big of a deal to them. They might hear comments from other people as they grow up, but you can't help that. If they are upset by what someone says, remind them that they are all brothers and sisters with the same Mom and you are a family.
2006-09-26 22:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by S. O. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! Your kids will probably learn a valuable lesson about accepting others no matter what they look like. There is nothing wrong with having a biracial baby.
2006-09-26 22:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by songbird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you asking that now? it's a little too late for that.... if you think it's wrong you better get over it pretty fast.... your other kids can't see you even question that or they may treat your baby different.... the wonderful thing about kids is that they aren't born to be prejudice..... they are taught to be and you shouldn'tdo anything to encourage it even if it is only doubts in your mind they will pick up on it.... they are family and they will stick together.... unless you treat the new baby different.... who cares what anyone else says?
2006-09-26 22:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by stonyruby152 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not wrong at all! I have a son from a previous relationship, and he is white. I am married to a man that is biracial and we have 2 sons and nobody thinks anything of it. Even if they did, I wouldnt care. My kids are special and it doesnt matter what race or color or anything else. So please, stop worrying and just enjoy yourself, and your kids!
2006-09-26 22:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by holly w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! This will eb a great experience for them! They all can learn of the different race's!! Hun look @ Angelina Jolie...all 3 kid's..all 3 different races!! Good luck & it will be fine!!
2006-09-27 00:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by babyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, it's a myth that black men have the biggest organs.
If you're into that sort of thing I recommend finding a nice young Italian man. Problem solved.
2006-09-27 02:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by daryavaush 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not wrong, but kinda difficult sometimes for kids to understand... DEPENDING on where you live!!... sorry to even have to say that!..
it should be fine, love them all equally, and they will thrive... love is all you need!
2006-09-26 22:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by lollipops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
children are impressionable. they learn perceptions from adults. so depending on the adults they are exposed to, they react they way they learn to. if you are not judgemental, then they will accept this situation as normal. and love this baby the same way they love siblings.
2006-09-26 23:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋