Ok I've been dating this guy for 8 mths over the net in those 8 mths we have broken up twice,why you ask The first time he was always mushy gooshy CONSTANTLY! we broke up and I felt bad for him he asked why I had broken up with him and I told him,He said he really loved me so we got back together 3 mths later he stops speaking to me all together so I got a hold of him by phone and told him my decision well then I found out that he was in training for baseball and he lost his cell phone so he couldn't call me and I love him so I said I was sorry and we moved on I told my mom about him and she wanted him to come to the state I live in and meet me,Thats didn't work because his dad wouldn't let him so We stayed together he stoped speaking to me again,School just started and I was meeting new people and I thought that it would be best if we break up(after the 2nd break up he said 3rd break up were threw)broke up and I love him alot,he doesn't want me back but I realized I love him alot
2006-09-26 14:55:54 · 32 answers · asked by pinksophie044 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep the Internet dating thing as entertainment only. Life experience speaking. Much the same as yours. The chances of me ever meeting this girl are between slim and none. Your chances are probably close to the same,especially if his father already said no. Do yourself a favor, keep this guy as a friend by all means, but get yourself a real face to face, reach out and hold hands, boyfriend. If the guy doesn't want to talk to you any more, his great loss, not yours. Know that's probably not what you wanted to hear, but at least I tried not to be mean.
2006-09-26 15:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he does not want you back it is best that you forget him. If for any reason he would take you back it would not be that he has the same feelings for you. Since you are a distance apart he can be living a double life and is afraid of getting caught you never know when you cant see them and witness their actions. You have to know you are better than that and whatever you do, do not beg him to take you back it will make all matters worse. Move on with your life meet someone new that you can see more often. You said you love him, but could it be real love? and if it is you are just going to have to find distractions and get over it I know it is hard, but you have to be strong girl.
2006-09-26 15:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by Letty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already broke up a few times, so why not try to meet a few new people? You can always be friends with the guy. Sometimes ego gets in the way when another does the breaking up. Sounds like you are two for one. Maybe it is time to take care of yourself and move on. Take care of yourself.
2006-09-26 15:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by caz40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing i have found with online relationships is that more often than not the people involved are in love with the idea of the other person, instead of the actual person. You said you are meeting new people that is a good start. Just try to stay busy and keep your mind occupied. If it is really supposed to happen then it will.
2006-09-26 15:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by OklahomaSweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Internet is not a place where real love is formed. You can meet on the net but love is formed through being together and getting to know each other in ways you can only accomplish by spending real time together.
I'm sure that's not what you wanted to hear but it's the truth just the same.
2006-09-26 15:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have never even met this guy. Who knows what he is doing when he isn't onlin with you?
I don't believe it is possible to have a real relationship online. If he wanted to meet you in person, he would have found a way.
Why don't you find some real friends to hang out with? The relationships may be more complicated, but the rewards are much greater.
2006-09-26 15:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 21:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by akien 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, but I dont understand how you fall in love with someone over the net. Get out and meet people for real and have a good time. You'll get over him but it will take time
2006-09-26 15:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by vindezeal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, this is confusing. so u have broken up 2...or was it 3? times, and havent even met each other. this relationship wopuld never work. its never a good idea to get dates over the net, unless u can actually MEET the guy. i would just forget about him, and find a new guy. your still in school, just forget it.
lots of luv,
ezza
2006-09-26 14:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by ezzaphill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are getting way too attached to someone you've never met! Keep in touch if u want but try 2 find someone in ur own state, it'll probably work out much better.
2006-09-27 16:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by gafpromise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋