Heres the deal, at my school, we have a 21st century program, Culinary Arts, its a three hour course a day, well in this class, I like this girl, and I cant tell what she wants, one moment we can hold a descent conversation, and the next, she is commenting on things I do, or calling me weird, and then she flips out on me too somethimes, and I try to be nice, but I just then say mean things back because I have no idea what to do, AM I sending out the wrong message, or is she just a friend, gf, or wasted time, please help me, bye.
2006-09-26 14:54:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she cant figure out how to flirt with u very well all the time! she likes u. just flirt back and try not to be too mean. if ur having a good conversation thats great but dont think shes a biotch when she flips out shes just nervous
2006-09-27 14:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by sashiegirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO u are not a waste of life. just because u have a few friends dosent mean ur not important or useless, ur only 15, u have the rest of ur life 2 make more friends, n meet a girl that likes u for u. N so what if u play video games 1 out of every 4 people in america plays video games. and as far as ur weight goes, like i said B4 ur still young u have the rest of ur life 2 change your weight if u want 2. but u will always have your family that will love yu n be there 4 yu, n if yu really feel that ur useless ( wich ur not) u should go tell some1 in ur family that u feel this way so they can help u threw this. YU MATTER !!!!
2016-03-27 12:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALERT !!! Anyone, whose moods switch that fast usually has some kind of chemical imbalance. Either naturally, (biochemically) ...as in bi-polar disorder, or if she's a substance abuse user her moods can swing very quickly. I'd stay away from her if I were you. Because, with that kind of personality disorder you never now what's going to come out of her mouth. Unpredictable behavior is a red flag for a needy, possibly vol-ital, hostile person. My suggestion to you is to concentrate on your studies, and once you find yourself attracted to someone with the right ingredients...friendly, open & honest, trustworthy, etc...etc...etc...then you can make a beautiful meal together and enjoy a nice cozy dessert. This girl you mentioned is a waste of time to you but... years of business to a good therapist. Don't waste your time on this ding-dong!
2006-09-26 15:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to date someone who would comment on how you do things or says your weird ? That makes no sense to me. Even a friend wouldn't do that. She's got some sort of hang up....talk to her but cast the line out and find another girl. Good luck.
2006-09-26 15:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is having a problem figuring out what she wants... you see woman are a strange breed, topped only by men... LOL. Jk. Really it is a woman's porogative to be indecisive, but she is taking things way to far. If you think about it, you really don't want to be with someone who freaks out over silly things for the rest of your life... therefore I am going to go with wasted time. You deserve to be with someone who KNOWS she wants to be with you, so please, for your sake, DO NOT settle for someone you even have to ask this question about. In the long run you will regret it...
I hope this helps you and good luck, your dream woman who knows that she wants you is out there... let HER find you! Hugs to you!
2006-09-26 14:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a crush crushing on you and she is really confused about what she wants as much as you are. I would try and talk to her privately... maybe ask her out to a movie or dinner or even just a walk in the park and figure out what is going on with her.
Sounds like she is confused about your feelings for her as she is for her feelings for you. Take it a day at a time.
2006-09-26 14:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wasted time. She sounds like a head case. Surely you don't want a gf that's going to flip out on you unexpectedly.
2006-09-26 14:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, it's high school ... you have the rest of your life and Culinary School to find the right girl for yourself. Let it be what it is and look towards the future cooking chics!
2006-09-26 15:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by fozbend11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's game playing. Ignor her and go about your business. Talk to the other people in the class. She is not worth the trouble.
2006-09-26 14:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess, (from personal experience) is that she just doesn't know what to say, or how to act towards you. It's completely not your fault. It sounds like she likes you, even though her messages are very confusing. I would just be yourself, let it ride.
2006-09-26 15:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by Ciavana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋