He broke up with me two weeks ago and i have tried everything to get him back...i have called everyday...cried my eyes out...drove by his house...what should i do...should i give him space...we were dating for over a year...i just feel that he is the one for me...what is the best advice on getting him back...do i give him space and wait this out or what? someone help
2006-09-26 14:41:15 · 7 answers · asked by djjd915 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl you need to hear a story. my friend broke with a chinese guy and that was two years ago. today she is known to be obsessed with him because she didn't give him time to realize how wrong he was. GIVE HIM TIME.Let him have a space. and if he doesn't come back, it's for a reason. think of what you've done before and say sorry for anything bad.
2006-09-26 15:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by punk_goth_kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing is the wrong thing to do. If your boyfriend broke up with you it was because he wanted his space so bugging him is definatley the wrong thing to do. I know it is really hard not to cry, not to call, and not to drive by but that is the last thing any guy wants from you at this point. Depending on your age the thing to do is probably to pretend like your having fun, hang out with people, and just enjoy life. Once he sees that you may not wait around forever he will more than likely be back. If he is not back in a month you may try a different strategy though. My boyfriend of six years broke up with me about two months ago for two weeks. We lived together so it was really hard for me to wait around but in the end it is worth it.
2006-09-26 21:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by Firemans_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the BEST thing is to give him space. if you call him and drive by and see him, it might drive him away even more and not even want to think about getting back with you....give him space.
I had a break up with my bf two years ago, and we had dated for 19 months....i was a mess, depressed, constantly crying....the only thing different about your situation is that I was away at school. I got to bond with some really great girls and learned to have fun just being me and doing my own thing. My then ex and i stayed in touch and he missed me, I let him be him and 8 months later he and i got back together.
SOOOO....I know it hurts right now, but you should go be having girls nights out and just try to have fun being you. Stay in touch with him if you want, but don't wait around for him....eventually if he doesn't see that he misses you and you meet someone new, don't hold yourself back. This is life...it doesn't wait around for you...good luck
2006-09-26 21:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by asiantomato84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space...leave him alone. He broke up with you because he didnt want to be with you. You crying your heart out and begging him to come back to you, is just going to push him away even more. You'll get over sooner or later.
2006-09-26 21:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out and just be friends with him. Be patient. You can still be friends with someone even if you broke up. Don't worry there are other fish in the sea.
2006-09-26 21:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by poohbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He broke up with you for a reason, perhaps you should accept it and move on. There are many people out there that will be better fitted for you then him.
2006-09-26 21:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say u realloy need him and make him fel bad but not to bad so he will go back out with u
2006-09-26 21:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by hola como estas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋