everyone is telling me not to go out with my BF because he's a player and a cheater, but i really like him and it seems like he really likes me too...what should i do? i dont want to be cheated on like some of his other GF's.
2006-09-26 14:38:00 · 18 answers · asked by semicharmed life girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he treats me like hes never cheated any of his other GFs
2006-09-26 14:42:53 · update #1
You have been cautioned and you have knowledge of other GF's of his have been cheated on. So honey, why? He is cute, but HE IS NOT HONEST or RESPECTFUL or CONSIDERATE if he is a cheater. The risk you would be taking - One Broken Heart- is too big a risk. This player doesn't deserve to break your heart. Be smart and listen to what you already know. HE WILL CHEAT BECAUSE HE WANTS TO AND CAN. You dont want to be his fool.
2006-09-26 14:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by brightambitions 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question by saying "cheated on like some of his other GF's" notice the plural GIRLFRIENDS. If you know he is why go out with him?! Do you have low self esteem and he makes you feel pretty/secure? D--k comes dime a dozen like p---y so go find another that at least going in to the realtionship you are not hearing negative comments (which may in fact be true).
2006-09-26 14:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Evil Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could be the one his loyal and faithful to but you never know. They say once a cheater always a cheater. Just go with the flow and see what happens.
2006-09-26 14:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like seriously what is the diffrence between a cheater and a player!!! They aren't concerned about you.
Its always about themselfs.
If they have done it once, once again its more likely to happen to you then not.
If you are really worried be his friend and see what his reactions are to the other girls while you are just his friend. Good Luck
2006-09-26 14:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Keisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question. You already know the answer. Read your last sentence again, I don't want to be cheated on like some of his other girlfriends.
If you haven't figured out it yet. He is NOT your boyfriend and you are just another easy piece.
Shake him off (probably be the first time for him) and wait for someone worthwhile to discover you.
2006-09-26 14:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by deepndswamps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat, always a cheat- barring a life changing event! If you haven't seen him struck by lightning or something equally drastic, get out before you get hurt.
2006-09-26 14:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want the risk of getting hurt, go for it. But if other girls got hurt, and you dont want that, do not take that risk hun. He probably wants some *** and he thinks you can give it to him, and i think you'd want a long relationship and to not get cheated on. So, my opinion, no.
2006-09-26 14:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes good at what he does hes probably both, and you'll be stuck in the thought that he actually cares about you.
However, it could just be wrong opinions on him and he could infact love you and never cheat on you ever.
2006-09-26 14:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definately needs remote from you. Thats obvious! He won't be making plans on cheating. perhaps he purely desires to act stupid & flirt. yet the two way, he's mendacity to you approximately why you may't journey with him. So, i does no longer enable that **** fly.
2016-10-18 01:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust him, first! If you don't trust him as a friend how can you trust him as a boyfriend? What ever you do, just follow your heart! Keep you morals in mind, never set them aside......
Together 14 yrs/Married 6
2006-09-26 14:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋