One of my BF's friends call him and txt him all the time. She's alright, but she does it when I'm hanging out with him. I get really mad, cause she'll call and he'll answer and she won't let him go when he keeps telling her that he's has to go. I try to like her, but she call's me a b****, that I don't derseve him and she does.
Now he's been ditching me to go hang out with her and he'll invite me, but I know wat she'll do if I do come so I don't. I mean I do luv him and he luvs me. I just feel left out from his life and his friends.
2006-09-26 14:28:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's ditching you for her, and taking her calls while he's with you, he is putting her needs above yours. If he cared more, he'd let her go to voice mail.... or tell her he already had plans with you. It's fine for someone to go hang out with a friend, but if you cancel prior plans to do it, that's a problem.
I hate to tell you, but it sounds like there is more to this story.
2006-09-26 14:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this friend was alright, she would not be doing what she is doing. Sounds like she wants your boyfriend as a trophy and not a boyfriend. People like that don't deserve liking they should be stayed away from. As for that boyfriend, Girlfriend, if he loves you, he would not be with her and ditching you. Just confront him and ask him why he is with her and not you. If he gives a lame answer, tell him good luck and move on even though it may be hard on you emotionally. Chances are, his new interest may move on too, to another boy toy.
Good luck
2006-09-26 14:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by geri11066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some guys want to have friend life seperate from their love life. Ya know? Depending on how long they have been friends, depends on how much time they spend together. But if he is ditching you for her and you are letting that slide, your whipped. Sorry but you are. You have to show your strengths and that HAS to be one of them, dont ever let a guy walk all over you. So sit and talk to him about it, and try to be nice to her, and tell him to tell her that you want to be her friend. Maybe it will work out okay
2006-09-26 14:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing if his friends disrespect you and he doesn't stand up for you that is not much of a love. Explain to him how you feel and let him make the desision whether or not he's going to do anything about it. If not then you don't need him. Trust me there is a lot moe to look forward to than what you've been settling for. You DESERVE better.
2006-09-26 14:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by chinadoll31645 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it because it seems like he might be slightly annoyed with her, or cheating....and that could be a problem. So, talk to him about it, and then take ur actions...i cant really say anything else right now, so email me with a follow up of if u talked to him and what he said or anything else. My email address should be on my profile. Good luck! Looking forward to hearing from u.
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2006-09-26 14:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Pyar Ki Pari♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...how long have you been seeing him? and secondly how long have they been friends?
I think though, that your BF needs to draw a definite line between the love he had for his friend, and the love he has for you...which SHOULD be completely different.
Your boyfriend needs to respect your feelings. Have you told him how you felt? If not, you should. If you have, well....it's not that he has to choose, but he needs to set some boundaries. And it sounds to me, that she may be more than just a friend if she believes that she deserves him more than you do. That's just strange for being "just friends".
2006-09-26 14:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't love you as much as you love him if he's willing to make you feel bad by answering the phone while you're hanging out and stuff, especially since he knows she says that stuff about you and he still insists on hanging out with her.
2006-09-26 14:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, talk to that so called friend of urs, she needs an attitude adjustment big time! she is just jealous, don't worry. & tell that guy wats going on, he can help you out if you to really like each other! hope i helped!â¥
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2006-09-26 14:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time to find a boyfriend who will treat you right.
Let him go,he doesn't deserve you.
2006-09-26 14:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by mopjky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he really likes you and this girl is getting really jealous.He's your man so make sure she knows that.Try talking to her and if that doesn"t work get a bunch of friends together and make sure that she remembers that it's you he's into you not her. Don't give up on him.
2006-09-26 14:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋