I just went over to my boyfriends house, and he asked me if I was ready to have our first kiss. I've never kissed a guy before, abd I was really nervous! I told him I wasn't really ready, yet! He told me that we have all the time in the world to have our first kiss! He doesn't want to rush me! I felt really bad for not kissing him, but I'm just not ready yet! I'm glad he asked me, but I think I just blew it!! How long should I wait till I kiss him?
2006-09-26 14:16:48 · 15 answers · asked by *Love is 1 Big Lie* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
until your comfortable
2006-09-26 14:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you do have all the time in the world. I'm am curious about how old you are but the fact didn't give in shows some maturity. You should wait til your ready before kissing the first time. If he breaks up with you because your not kissing him there are so many other fish in the sea and many will wait.
2006-09-26 21:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by Chesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, wait as long as you need! Take your time if you arent ready. The relationship should be mutual. Its amazing that ur boyfriend is so caring and thinks about your feelings. You are really lucky to have someone like that. But just remember, don't do anything you don't want to. And now you know, that when you are ready for it, he will probably be ready too. Good Luck! Hope I helped! Email me if you need anything else. My email address is on my profile.
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2006-09-26 21:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Pyar Ki Pari♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are lucky to have such a caring boyfriend!! and no, i don't think that you blew your chance. he is still with you right! well that should tell you something. it's your first kiss, make it as perfect as you can, and wait until you are ready, ready, or it can be a bad experience to look back at. go luck to you and your guy.
2006-09-26 21:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by naomi_campbell_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on you. When ever you feel that it is the right time. Maybe in 2 days you might get the feeling. A fist kiss is just spontanious. It just happens. It's bnot about waiting but about the rught ime. Maybe he might do something nice towards you and you might just feel that you need to kiss him and you might without even thinking about it. Hope you like it!!
2006-09-26 21:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Frank-36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush yourself... Never do anything you are not comfortable with and if he's willing to wait, then it's all the better..... It will happen naturally when the time is right.... You will know..
2006-09-26 21:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait till your ready
2006-09-26 21:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jakele K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Untill your ready and he's ready again and your comfortable dont do it because your forcing yourselfe or anyone else it.
2006-09-26 21:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask and are so stressed out then you are too young, sweetie. Back off and go do your homework.......when it happens, it just happens and it is not a scheduled event.
2006-09-26 21:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, ever, ever, ever, *everrrr* do anything unless you're ready and you want to. If your boyfriend likes you for you, he will wait as long as he has to.
2006-09-26 21:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. ur BF knows how you feel and seems ok with it. stop stressing about something like this. as for how long, wait until you're ready
good luck
2006-09-26 21:20:04 · answer #11 · answered by brummondgirls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋