Me and my ex recently broke up, we fought alot due to not seeing eachother, i guess he wanted to see me as much as i did, but we hardly ever hung out, we both thought that it was because the other didnt want to, but that wasnt the case....so we ended up breaking up...i miss him soo much, i didnt realize how much i loved him untill i lost him, and now i want to go back, but i dont know if its the right thing to do
2006-09-26 14:14:34 · 9 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Going back never works.
You feel a need because something has been removed from your life, and as yet you have nothing to replace it with.
Your system follows it habitual paths until something new occurs.
It's not him you long for, but something that he represents - may be just good company, or security, or something else. These easily get translated into love, but they are not really love.
If it was really love, you wouldn't have broken up in the first place.
2006-09-26 14:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it depends on how serious you fought. If you broke up because you both wanted the same thing I'm really confused! If you do get back together you should spend the time you did fighting doing something else a little more fun fighting over the same thing is just a waste of time and is just crazy!!!
2006-09-26 16:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by rockinshewolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer these questions... Do you want to be with him because the relationship was fulfilling and you were satisfied? Or, do you want him back simply because he was yours and now he's not and it just sucks to break up? Was yours a meaningful honest relationship rich in communication? Or maybe it was a fling that is slightly more enticing now that it's been flung?
2006-09-26 14:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by brightambitions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Let's think about this... You fought alot, you broke up, he is your ex-. Can we assume that there just might be a reason he is your ex-whatever-he-is? If there is a good reason then I would logically think then the answer is no.
2006-09-26 14:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't. You broke up for a reason and that reason will still be there. There is a world of men out there who will love you and treat you well and make you feel special. Go put on your big girl panties and go find one. Don't you deserve better than your ex and his bs?
2006-09-26 14:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce isn't the answer, unless he's beating you or something. If you really love him go back, and make it work.
Pray about it too, God works all things out for good for those who believe in him.
2006-09-26 14:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the basis of any good relationship. If you can't talk and understand each other under non-argumentative conditions, then you need to move on.
2006-09-26 14:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by fozbend11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your tells you to!
2006-09-26 14:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does he think?
2006-09-26 14:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋