we meet in february and started dating in the end of may.... he was getting a divorce, and then moved in with me in july.... all of a sudden he quit his job because his boss would not allow him to have a weekend off for his best friends wedding.... a week later he started to pack all of his stuff up and just left to go back to the ranch that he worked on a long time ago 4 hours away... was it something that i did? i cooked and cleaned every day for him as well as gave him just about everything that he ever asked for? when will it be my turn???????? he is 27
2006-09-26 13:59:38 · 5 answers · asked by melisahill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he needs to grow up. it wasnt you, it is all him.His wife will tell u the same thing. I see a pattern here.... he leaves when he feels threatened. he was getting a divorce... he needs to grow up,and he should have not been with u if he was still married. i know I am sounding harsh, it isnt meant to be taken that way. Please, 4get him,and move on. It was/isn't you, it is alllll him. U are better off without him,anyways. If he loved you, he would be there,and i wouldn't be answering this,and you will not be reading it,wiping tears away with a tattered, snot- filled Kleenex.
2006-09-26 14:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a divorce version of post-traumatic stress disorder. All divorced men go through some form of it. It's not you. It's him. Give him his space if he really cared about you he'll be back. It sucks being the rebound g/f or b/f. Lesson to be learned in this: Don't get involved with a person going through a divorce or with 3 months after it's finalized you'll get hurt or burned.
2006-09-26 14:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Erica, it was him....but I think it was more that he just hasn't grown up yet. Everything you described to me says "flaky" all over it. He moved in with you before getting divorced and he left his job because his boss wouldn't let him off? WAAAAAHHHHHH. When did he stop breastfeeding, last week?
But the question you need to be asking is "at 27, why would I move in with a still-married man and slave over him?" Respect yourself more, like yourself more, wrap your worth in somebody else's attentions less.
2006-09-26 14:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your are too easy. Why would he respect that?
2006-09-26 14:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
2006-09-26 14:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋