2006-09-26 13:53:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we've been going out for 4 months now and i love him so much. i feel like i'll lose him if i don't. can anyone help me
2006-09-26 13:54:30 · update #1
don't. whatever you do, don't have sex until you're ready. for one, it's statutory rape--being under 18. if you think he'll leave you just because you won't have sex with him, then you definitely don't need him. he doesn't love you. if he does love you, he won't force you to have sex or threaten to leave you if you don't have sex with him. please don't give in to him. keep your own morals and ideals in mind. don't worry...it's just your boyfriend..there will probably be many more. don't give him what he wants, cause that's just a recipe for him leaving you when he gets it.
2006-09-26 14:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok so listen queen,, it's great that you really love him.. what's not great is the pressure that you are feeling and going through about having sex.. first off , R U ready? Yes, well okay be safe and think it through before actually acting on it.. if no... then wait, no matter what, and if he can't deal with that , it's on him, tell him to be the older more mature one and cope..PLUS.. I know you don't want to hear this,, But,, it's likely you'll have more bf's.. so give it all a bit of thought..
2006-09-26 21:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Deborah J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WAIT!!! You are still in school, way not ready to deal with any of the possible consequences. I noticed the phrasing of your question: "My Boyfriend wants...." So, yeah, what he wants is one thing, but what about what you want. Don't you want his RESPECT? Have sex with him, and lose his respect, and possibley gain an unsavory reputation in school. YOU are the one who has to decide if it is time for you to have sex. If you are a virgin, keep it that way until you marry.
2006-09-26 21:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by The Mystic One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, well if you can think with your head you'll realize that if he actually loved you back he'd be able to wait until you're ready.
But that's just being logical about it...
2006-09-26 21:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by funkyourcouches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you and wants to be with you he will wait for you
2006-09-26 21:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋