How do you feel when a guy (you dont know) starts up a casual conversation with you? How would you prefer that they did it?
2006-09-26 13:48:12 · 12 answers · asked by masterofthepanflute1721 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as casual conversation doesn't involve "You're hot!" or looking at my breasts then I'll be nice right back.
2006-09-26 14:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by c_mitu89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am kinda shy and I'm not the best at conversating with people I don't really know. It takes me a few times of meeting them and talking to them to feel comfortable enough to show who I really am. So for starters if she doesn't seem all that responsive give it some time and eventually she'll feel more at ease. Start by introducing yourself, tell her you felt like you just had to come over and meet her. Give her a compliment. Give her your number. Tell her you'd really like to get to know her. Try to find a way where you'd be running in to her like I said it may take a few conversations for her to feel comfortable.
2006-09-26 14:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by lil sis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel a little uncomfortable at first, but once the conversation starts, I get a little more comfortable. There's no exact way That I want it done, I just want the guy to come up to me and start talking. That's it. Nothing flashy, or complicated.
2006-09-26 13:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just start talking back to him. continuing the casual conversation.
2006-09-26 13:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by Cassandra D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to be approached nicely in a calm way and the guy being a gentleman not to foward .......when a guy is to forward it's a turn off especially for shy girls so if the guy introduce hiself in a calm way maybe the girl will like him
2006-09-26 13:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww... iam not shy bu i think i can help u...my best friend is shy so i get this all the time...a girl fells so uncomfortable when this happens u feel like ur gonna blow up!!! if u wanna talk some more just e-mal me@drpepperchic69@yahoo.com
2006-09-26 13:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, kind of weird. like "why is he talking to me?" but then afterwards, if the guy is cool and not just trying to get in my pants, he'll get a good conversation between us.
start of by saying something like...
"hi. my name's....... " but be polite and don't make the girl be afraid of you
best of luck
2006-09-26 13:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by jascyapt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy i guess... If i have never saw you before I would be kinda creeped out. As long as your nice, i guess it wouldn't be so bad. Just be friendly and smile and i think you'll be ok.
2006-09-26 13:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would love if a guy would talk to me lol. but, being shy, they usually dont :P. but just coming up and saying 'hi how are you" or "hows your day going etc" would be perfect.
2006-09-26 13:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I talk back. I would prefer he came up to me and said hi! how are u? and so on and so forth.
2006-09-26 13:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋