my best friend (who's a guy) asked me out. and even tho i didn't ever really think of him that way, i said yes. now im regretting it. how do i dump him and still be friends?? i don't wanna hurt his feelin's and he really really REALLY likes me. so much it almostr freaks me out. we've only been dating for 2 weeks
2006-09-26 13:46:44 · 10 answers · asked by brummondgirls 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well there are a few different things that u can do but the best thing to do is get him alone and tell him that u really dont like him like that but u do like him as a friend and u always want to be friends but u dont think u 2 can go out because if it goes on too long than we may not be able to become friends again if we ever breake up and i dont want that to happen cus i want us to be friends forever but i dont want it to end up aquard so im sorry we can no longer date
well good luck
2006-09-26 13:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by that one girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dumped you first no i dumped you first no longer i dumped you first can we be acquaintances again How previous are you? do not pay interest on your different acquaintances by no skill trust each little thing you hear as reality, reason i assure you the reality has gotten distorted alongside the line of so n' so informed me gossip. If this lady is your "pal" then why can not you only flow and confer with her about what you heard and clean up inspite of the precedence is rather of inflicting all this drama. p.s. i wasn't attempting to be mean on the initiating of only had to allow you to recognize how infantile it changed into sounding it really is all. GL
2016-11-24 21:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm you should just tell him straight out how you feel about him... You really shouldn't date him in the first place! You will hurt his feeling anyways so why not be honest with him? Be a true friend (if you think you are his true best friend)I think its going to be hard for him to remain friends with you after he heard the truth but if he really want you in his life, he will be around.
2006-09-26 13:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by sunflower222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. I know this sucks worse than anything else I could tell you, but it really is the only way to save the relationship. The truth is, some special friendships go way deeper into your heart than romance can, and that means sometimes the two can't be compatible. Good luck, I'm sorry, and don't delay. That will only make it harder to save.
2006-09-26 13:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by awakeatdawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that the "dating thing" is working for you. Dates are easier to come by than good friends. He will probably be hurt, but hopefully he will get over it.
2006-09-26 13:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him there's someone else.. After all, you're only friends and he shouldn't be taking that so seriously since most of all you're friends and not a couple
2006-09-26 13:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by zap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he realy realy likes u... well u can try to go through with it but if hes doin weird stuff then tell him that hes doing weird stuff mayb u should give him some time
2006-09-26 13:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Rosalina04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him what you told us. He'll understand.
2006-09-26 15:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by JesusFreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being honest as you should have in the first place...
2006-09-26 13:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That one's hard...Man, youre screwed.
2006-09-26 13:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by nerveserver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋