i'm 48 and been marred 28 years, my husband has been cheating on me, we have never had much , now we do, he got on at nasa .. he has been having a affair with a women at work, she is 6 foot tall i'm 5 '4... she is heavy but makes tons of money, what can i do not to be me..
2006-09-26 13:34:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Divorce him and take half of his stuff. You earned it. Go get that Harley and a tattoo and have some damn fun. I'd love to go for a ride with you. I have my own bike. Let me know.
2006-09-26 14:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live south of you and I have your Harley you need!! Been trying to sell this bike so I can move my family into a house. And if you want a tattoo then go see Marty in Palm Bay. He the best and all freehand. The man can do anything you want. He`s the best Ive ever seen. My brother come s from North Carolina to get his tats from him. Now as far as the ole man having an affair then maybe you should take a little money at a time and put it away and then start your own thing. I know 2 wrongs don`t make a right but don`t stand there and take it. If your serious about the Harley I work in Sebastion at Bay Street Optical!!
2006-09-26 20:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in my 40's also when my life turned upside down. Don't hate yourself, you are worth far more than that stinker of a husband thinks. You are angry and hurt and rightfully so. You may not have any choice in whether your marriage lasts or not. Just remember, people start over at any age. Be strong and get a damned good lawyer.
2006-09-26 20:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you cant change for HIM if you really want to change, change for you.
If you want to leave him - do it. You'd get a lot of $$$ from him since he was cheating.
If you dont want to - get to counseling.
Change together, find something exciting like riding Harleys (love it!!) but do it together. travel. Visit Europe.
2006-09-26 20:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change to please him,you have to do it for yourself.
As far as the affair ,chances are any changes you make now will not have any affect on that. Sorry,but it's probably too late now.
2006-09-26 20:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to read "What Color Is My Parachute" a new version comes out each year...terrific for self discovery. One thing I tell you for sure about you...you are a unique creation of the Goddes...quick (or slowly if you prefer) find out more about yourself. You could be the one we need to change this world for the better.
(Also check out hayhouseradio.com and good luck..let me know how it all comes out.)
2006-09-26 20:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Greanwitch 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a tat it hurts like hell but it is liberating! you might want to get you a Harley to they are fun and make you fill like a free spirit!!!!
Good Luck
2006-09-26 20:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other women has nothing to do with what you look like. Take his *** for half of everything.
2006-09-26 20:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him do his thing, you go do yours honey, and have fun. just don`t leave him, he has money now. go get a bike
2006-09-26 20:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by Skuya!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't change yourself just leave his *** alone ok hun and start a new life ok sweetie
2006-09-26 20:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mz. New Orleans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋