I was very mad for a stupid reason, and i was going to slap him in public, he held my arm very fast.After that i left, he seemed very upset, i don't know how he will react in private, he's not aggressive.What shoul i TELL HIM ?
2006-09-26 13:11:39 · 24 answers · asked by flower f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All he did was defend himself..u r the one with serious problems and violent tendencies...seek help immediately...u r a nutter!!!!! ur boyfriend will b a lot happier without u.
2006-09-26 13:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him nothing and be glad that you and he never got married. If you are prone to slapping him that means that you don't love him. You just want someone to control. Slapping another person, boyfriend or not is assault and can get you landed in jail. Get some anger management before you actually hurt someone.
2006-09-26 20:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slapping your significant other could be a crime, partner or family member assault, so be careful about hitting in the future.
Men usually don't stay mad for long or hold grudges.
Tell him you made a mistake, you're sorry, and that it will never happen again. After that, use your imagination.
2006-09-26 20:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is that embarassed to be seen with you then you don't need him you can do better than him. I had a boyfriend who did that and I put him out of my life because a real man will treat you good and would be proud to be seen with you in public and private.
2006-09-26 20:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never have disrespected him like that, specially in public. Its wrong to lose your temper and stike someone you care about. Leave that for someone you hate, or dont want to ever talk to agian! give him some time, but be sure to apologize and not to ever do that again. Dont be surprised if he doesnt want to talk to you anymore though. You cant blame him. Would you talk to him if he slapped you in public?
2006-09-26 20:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Esme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to deal with your temper and communicate in a healthy way. Hitting is NOT okay . . not for a man or a woman.
Get some counseling.
Then maybe you'll be ready for a relationship.
In the meantime, tell him your sorry, and that your going to get counseling on your temper.
2006-09-26 20:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that I made a scene. I embarrassed myself, and more importantly you. I should never resort to violence in public and in private. I won't do it again.
...and then don't ever do it again. Slapping is childish.
2006-09-26 20:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by just browsin 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go apologize and tell him that you'll never do it again. You should NEVER strike your boyfriend and he should never strike you. Also, you should support your boyfriend and life him up as a person, ESPECIALLY in front of others.
You did serious damage to his self-esteem. You humiliated him in public. Any guy would be terribly upset.
Just try to build him up, not tear him down, ESPECIALLY in front of others.
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2006-09-26 20:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD NEVER GET TO THE POINT WHERE YOU BEGIN TO MAKE YOURSELF LOOK STUPID IN PUBLIC. IT MAKES YOU LOOK IMMATURE AND I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD LEARN TO HANDLE THINGS IN A MORE LADY-LIKE MANNER. WAIT TILL YOU GET HOME AND THEN TALK ABOUT IT...BUT I WOULDN'T DARE JUST LET HIM DISRESPECT ME IN PUBLIC, NOT BY ALL MEANS...I'M JUST SAYING DON'T SLAP HIM, BECAUSE IF HE HAPPENS TO HIT YOU BACK FROM HIS REFLEXES, THEN...WELL, YOU DO THE MATH...GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-26 20:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u are sorry of course and it will never ever happen again,u might want to look him dead in the eye when saying this,he's just a little embarass, i would be too,he will come around if he truly loves u
2006-09-26 20:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by Kirk H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋