my daughter is 20 yrs old and lives at home. she has a 4yr old daugther. she and i do not get along. she has hit me. she curses me out. i want her to move out. what should i do?
2006-09-26 13:09:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her to move out, if it is your house. She is over 18 OR call the cops on here. Daughter or not she has not right to disrespect you. You also need to laid down the lay, don't let her push around. My parents would kick my *** if I EVER did anything like that to them.
You need to toughen up and YOU be the boss not her.
2006-09-26 13:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by PeachN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she has to leave. She will be given a chance to find something and that if she hits you again, you WILL be pressing charges against her and follow through. Then you can take the grandchild away from her and protect her from her mother. Follow through and make this a promise not a threat! If she is not out in 1 month (or less depending on how long you can tolerate her), stay home and change the locks. It will be an expense that will save you a fortune.
2006-09-26 13:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she lives with u you have to file formal eviction papers if she hits you call the police and have a restraining order issued and contact children and family services if shell hit you she has no buisness having custody of that child she will only show the child that violence is the only way to handle things sometimes its better for the kid then maybe your daughter could get some conseling im 37 years old and id be damned if i ever raised a hand to my mother get that baby away from her if what you are saying is true the baby deserves better then a battering piece of crap that would hit her mother i am not a fan of childrren and family services but sometimes u have no choice wait til shes out one night and call em then i hope it helps it may cause her to be upset with you but the baby and you are the main concern at the moment she needs help
2006-09-26 13:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by kissfan1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell you daughter that her free life is over and that it is time for you to only have to be grandma. And if she is hitting you put her in jail. I'm only 31 but I have not live with my mom or dad since I was 18. They need to grow up sometime and only you can make that time happien.If you feel that you can't put her out because of the kid then you tell her she need to leave and that if she doesn't that you will call the cops you have to stand up for you let the abuse stop with you and not that child
2006-09-26 13:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by crazywoman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do, do it with love. tell your daughter that you want the best for her & also for yourself & that for now that means she needs to leave. tell her that it doesn't mean that you don't care, but that you think it will be the best thing to do in order to maintain a relationship. say that the strain of living together is doing harm to your relationship. help her any way that you can to find a new place to live. try to make it a fun experience rather than a scarry one -- moving out will probably be very hard for her. 20 is very young to be totally responsible for another person.
2006-09-26 13:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by hannah1015 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move out and it won't be long and the appreciation will be evident, it will be hard for the grand child but mommy needs to get a clue of what life dishes to adults in adult situations. She has already taken on the responsiblity of making adult choices when she slept with the babies father. Make her rely on her own instincts and figure out how to do what you have been doing for her . and best of luck to all of you . tough love hurts!!! but certainly pays off. let her know you and your love will always be with her.
2006-09-26 13:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by wick3dwench 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 17:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by osterman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a sit down with her and explain what's troubling you. Let her know that you don't appreciate the way she treats you and you feel it's in everyones best interest if she found herself another place to live.
2006-09-26 13:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by bluesie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late to go back in time and teach her to be a responsible adult, so I guess just tell her to shape up or move out.
2006-09-26 13:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you love her but it's time for her to get her own place. Hopefully the baby's daddy is paying good child support.
2006-09-26 13:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by bcre8ive2day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋