I have a 12 years old son and my sister has two daughters, 13 and 12 years old, we are single mothers. My sister visited me last Friday. Then she gave me a call that same day; I was already sleeping, and she told me that her older daughter dared my son to touch her sister in the breasts. He touched her and ran! Now her daughter wants to kick him in the nuts; my sister and I agree that is the best thing to do. He sure doesn’t want to be kicked and is really scared, I am not happy about it either, but he must learn to respect women, it is for his own good, and serves him right. My sister is coming to visit me again this Friday.
After he touched her, she tried to kick him but he defended all her kicks, so now I am going to hold him and let her kick him. Do you think he is too young to get this kind of punishment for the first time?
I will post a new question after my sister visits me, to let you know what happened.
2006-09-26 13:08:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I guess it could only help him get ready for more too come ( Joke ) I would def talk to your sis and the kids about this not too young but too sensitive
2006-09-26 13:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by beachluver1432 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
HELLO????? How is using violence acceptable in dicapline? I'd never let anyone kick either of my son's in the crotch, no matter what they did. That's a very sensitve area on the male body. What your son did was wrong grabbing his cousins breasts, but letting her kick him in the crotch isn't teaching him anything, other than if your naughty your gonna get kicked in the nuts.
Sit him down and talk with him and explain to him that touching a girls breasts isn't acceptable.
You should be turned in for even allowing that if you do allow it.
2006-09-26 23:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I answered this question before.I have seen this question about 4 or 5 times if not more.Why do you keep reposting it?Did you not get enough answers the first time you asked it?Most of the people who answered gave logical answers.Why ask it over and over and waste the space.People who actually have legit questions are having their questions pushed down because you are asking if you should allow your neice to kick your son in his private area.Stop wasting the space that people who actually have questions could be using to get their questions answer accurately.
2006-09-26 21:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no man should ever be kicked in the nuts!There are other ways to punish him.Getting kicked there can cause perminate damage that none of ya'll want.He should already know that that was inappropriate behavior.Find another way to punish him.Maybe a talk with the local police department let them tell hin what happens to sex offenders.That should scare the hell out of him but can't damage him for life.
2006-09-26 20:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Desperado 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Are you serious? How ignorant can you be. You do not hold someone down or indorse someone to abuse anyone else. You need to talk to your nephew or whoever it was about touching someone elses privet areas.
You and your sister have absolutly no right being parents. If you want your kids to learn respect, then teach it to them, don't allow someone to be harmful to them.
I'm sure you wouldn't want someone holding you down and beating on you. You will end up in jail or have your kids taken away from you if you allow abuse in your household!
2006-09-26 20:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by ExoticKiss 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he is old enough to touch her breasts, then he is old enough to be kicked in the nuts by her. He sure deserves it. How would you feel if someone touched your breasts?!
2006-09-26 20:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by funlovingirl88 1 · 3⤊ 5⤋
That's not right!
2006-09-26 21:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by ariannaandtjsmom 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋