Most girls expect a kiss on the first date, and if I don't do that, which of course I'm shy to do, I fall into their friendship circle, which I hate. I also don't want to be too quick so I don't come off her as wanting only sex.I'm really confused. Ok what I'm concerned about is this, as a good, honest black guy, how do I make the first dates worthwhile, so she wants more almost immediately or she wants to see me again, or she stays interested, and I don't fall into her "friend circle?"
2006-09-26 13:08:14 · 15 answers · asked by blackblokehere 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Act like you're better than her.. I know I'd go crazy trying to win over someone that I can't have. Or maybe date around.. not every woman puts you in a friend circle after not kissing on the first date y'know?
2006-09-26 13:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by untilyoucamealong04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First stop selling yourself short over nonsense ok don't let color effect the way you feel, I say give it a try thats how you learn about each other you will find out good things you didn't know an dvice versa so stop acting like a boy and act like a young descent man.
2006-09-26 13:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by ali L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is truly interested, then it isnt a bad thing to feel like a "Friend". If that is the case, you will find when you ask her out again on a date and she says yes, then you know that she has interest of some sort.
2006-09-26 13:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by bryp1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try a dating site like EHarmony and Match.com and describe yourself as a gentleman who likes to court a lady and wants someone who waits for the first kiss.
2006-09-26 13:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least give her a nice tight hug, or a gentle kiss in the cheek.
2006-09-26 13:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't leasten to all those answers, if u like her, do what your heart tells u to do, not because you're black you're supposed to date black woman, if u fell like she wants to kiss u, and if u want to kiss her too, then go for it.
2006-09-26 13:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes u just gotta give girls what they want. don't be too nice, or come off desperate. act like u could do without em. they like flattery, but don't ever be clingy. that's how i got my girl. it drove her nuts.
2006-09-26 13:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by fallen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF. IF SHE IS FEELING YOU THAN I AM HAPPY FOR YOU, HOWEVER, IF YOU ACCIDENTALLY HAPPEN TO FALL IN THE FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE, CONTINUE TO BE HER FRIEND, MAYBE ONE DAY SHE'LL SEE YOU FOR THE GOOD DUDE I HOPE YOU ARE.
2006-09-26 13:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by goldie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from black to another if she wants you to **** go ahead in **** up no matter what race that's just a crouch for your insecurities
2006-09-26 13:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by Dr shiznet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl is just a girl doesn't matter if she's black or white
2006-09-26 13:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by Kirk H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋