Im so sorry to everyone...i keep writing on here about this guy...lol...i wish i could delete my previous questions k...well...weve been dating for a month and a half...we met online...ok...thats just how it is on a site like myspace...my best friend is his sisters neighbor...we hit it off...totally were into eachother...talking all the time...he totalled his car and then failed his dental board exams...he kind of hid for a couple of days...now hes back...hell send a text usually everyday if he doesnt hear from me saying hey babe asking what im doin and if im ok...but hes not talkin to me as much as before...but he also started back working long hours and its ramadan...he apologized for not bein there as much and for bien a jerk...i know he talks to other girls online bc hes always leavin them comments on a site like myspace like hey hit me up if u wanna chat baby...is he just playin me for a fool? he told me hes not ready for a serious r bc he was hurt but likes me and cares for me
2006-09-26 12:57:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
weve also met and plan on meeting again and im telling u for the last month and a half we would talk almost day and nite and watch movies together online...i know it sounds stupid...but do u really think hes just playin me?
2006-09-26 13:08:12 · update #1
He's not ready for any serious commitments at this time. You should consider dating others.
2006-09-26 13:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are one of several different girls he is interested in. If so, then in a way he is simply just a player; wanting to have fun, but not wanting all the other stuff that comes with a relationship [like monogamy and jealousy]. If you're interested in a relationship, then you need to find someone that is also looking for a relationship.
2006-09-26 20:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, what you could do is maybe slow down and not rush things. If you take things nice and easy, it usually will fall into place if it was something meant to be.
So all in all, If you don't hear from him for a few days, maybe he feels like he is being smothered, not saying that is the case, but it is possible.
Let things run their course.
2006-09-26 20:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by bryp1979 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Until you meet in real life, it is foolish to consider what you have any kind of relationship. I do the same thing he does on 360. There are plenty of girls I'm friendly and chatty with and none of them will be my girlfriends. I care about them, but they are not going to become my girlfriends.
Good luck.
2006-09-26 20:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by Magina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Online? Seriously?
2006-09-26 20:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are getting the same thing all the girls are getting from him, We have all been hurt but life goes on so when someone uses that excuse they aren't really interested in one person, they want them all.
2006-09-26 20:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by 51ain'tbad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to break it down to you girl but it seemes to me that hes just trying to play you like he dosent want to be with you but just wants to get in your pants in other words he want to be your friend with benefits know what i mean trust me i know im a guy and i also play the game before well until i fell in love with my girl
2006-09-26 20:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by scarakm1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-09-26 20:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you listen to him
2006-09-26 20:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by dulcrayon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE DEFINITELY TAKING WHAT YOU TWO HAVE MORE SERIOUS THAN HIM. FALL BACK BECAUSE IT DOESN'T SEEM LIKE HE WANT WHAT YOU WANT.
2006-09-26 20:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by goldie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋