In a few days Im leaving town for about 2 years. Ive started to hang out with this girl which I like. We’ve gone out but I get mixed signals. She laughs, we talk a lot she seems to have a good time. However Im always the one intiating contact. She is very hard to get a hold of, has rainchecked me a few times, she never tries to find or call me. Her body language confuses me, she sometimes allows contact but sometimes draws away though I may have been too subtle. They say that when you are interesed your body faces the person Ive noticed mine is but she only turns the head. Just want to know if she likes me back. Im thinking simple: stealing a kiss before I leave. Mostly a fix for my ego.
I feel she wont go for it but Im not 100% sure. Ive always been way to safe when it comes to this, this may be my chance to break away. Dont want to be a puss but dont want to look like an ****** either. Want to weigh doing something bold but uncertain versus playing it safe but dealing with what-if
2006-09-26 12:56:04 · 13 answers · asked by Cape Dead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try asking her if you can kiss her before you leave...a guy I dated did that before he left and I'm glad he did; since it turned out he was confused by my body language..I was too nervous to go for it myself so he asked and it was a great kiss.
Good luck.
2006-09-26 13:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she sounds like she doesn't know if she likes you. I suggest in a very low tone when you are doing something completely non sexual ask her. "Can I kiss you" this is very romantic and she might react oddly but for the restore day and maybe the next she will be thinking I wonder what it would be like to kiss him.
2006-09-26 13:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by SassyFras85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why emotionally invest. Skip the kiss that may not be well received anyway and just build a life with someone else wherever you are moving to.
2006-09-26 12:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steal the kiss. Risk the face slap. .. . or the kiss being accepted and returned. What have you go to Lose. She sounds like a tease, but who knows?
Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
2006-09-26 12:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she's playing hard to get, so kiss her! Just go for it, c'mon what do you have to lose? You're leaving anyways right? At least if she does like you, you can still talk after you leave.
2006-09-26 13:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A soft, gentle kiss on the cheek speaks volumes.
2006-09-26 12:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by l a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl is afraid ur gonna leave and forget about her so she doesn't want to get to into the relationship and get her heart broken so when ur gonna go on ur last date steal ur kiss and say somethin sweet like i won't forget u or something but not somethign cheesy
Good luck!!
2006-09-26 13:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by jackylegs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont steal a kiss, share one. You are leavin anyway, whats the worst that can happen
2006-09-26 13:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss her hand or her cheek. You get to let her know how you feel without offending her by taking any liberties that you have not earned.
2006-09-26 13:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you man
girls do that
they wanna see if ur gonna stick with them
steal a small kiss before you leave
then look at her
and leave if she doesnt seem happy
and let her do whatever then basically
STEAL A KISS!!!!
2006-09-26 12:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋